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Boomer vs millennial parenting

I know that there is a lot of things that Boomer parents did wrong and millennials want to fix it and parent differently but I still feel like there is an element of "if it ain't broke don't fix it". I was talking to my boss who is a new grandma and she was saying how strange it finds it that parents these days s...

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Hoover recommendations

Not child related, but I’m in desperate need of a new vacuum cleaner. Can anyone recommend a good one?

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AiTA

Am I the Ahole I suffer from anxiety and had a baby 7months ago been with my partner nearly 8 years I was ment to be attending a group this morning to help with my anxiety my partner was ment to be helping I spoken to him several times in the last few days about how anxious I am so he agreed to come help me at 8.1...

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14month

My 14 month old sleeps through the night on his own so not sure if this is the right group but from the second he wakes up until his nap time he screams & screams no matter what you do he’s clean fed had milk ect, he won’t watch tv or play with toys he wants me to stand in the kitchen holding him wich is the only th...

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Advice please

Hey mamas…I have a question about what dads or partners are doing to help you out with baby? My husband is an amazing dad but thinks I’m asking too much of him! Maybe I am so just wanted to see what other people are doing. TIA🙏

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Am I doing something wrong?

My LO is 2 months now and only seems to be super fussy and unhappy when I'm alone with him. My husband went back to work at 3 weeks so it's been primarily me taking care of my LO day and night. I'm very fortunate that my family is around often so one of them often joins me in taking care of him. The problem is, wh...

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Help

Hi! Is there someone in here that feels their privacy is being violated every time in-laws are involved? I know they're "family" but it's just that my peace is being gone every single time. How do you do it? For the record, i dont have a relationship with them. I cut my communication before giving birth. I remained ...

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Am I wrong for saying I’m a single mother or preferring to just do my way?

My fiancé really keeps saying if I don’t want to continue to be overstimulated and doing everything for the baby by myself I should put her up for adoption. Let’s not even take into account I have 3 children from my previous marriage that I have been raising on my own. Our child together is his first biological chil...

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Red flags 🚩

Looking for some advice from other new mummas.. I had baby a week ago today via c section and was completely surprised when I was in the recovery room and my partner advised me his dad was waiting outside in the car park, desperate to come in. He was asking to come in before we had even been given the clear from r...

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I’m not mad about this but 🤦🏻‍♀️

I want to be clear, this is not to bash my husband and is not weaponized incompetence, he’s just a human with ADHD. I just can’t 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ in front of him because it feels mean. Today is our 5yo’s birthday and my husband posted a happy birthday message on social media with a reel of pictures…

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Does anyone else find it so hard to play with their kids :(

So my toddler is about to be 3 next month and she is in an imaginative stage. I’m a SAHM and she wants to pretend play and because I’m so exhausted all the time (and honestly depressed af) I cannot work up the energy to be imaginative. I do take the time out but it’s really hard and I mostly say I can’t rn. Every ti...

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Just venting. (I know sorry it’s a long post to whoever wants to read this vent)

My boyfriend is very emotionally abusive and verbally abusive to me I can’t have friends especially not guys I can hardly see my family I can’t go out with my family I can’t help my parents at work I can’t see my only friend that’s a girl and I can’t go out with her Because he always threatens that if I leave he’s g...

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Help

Hey mama idk what to do we have tried taking my daughters toys away from her for being bad but this the second time she has gotten a referral from school for doing something bad at school and she also keeps peeing her pants does any mama know what I can do to help her not be bad so much and we token away tv time and...

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FTM here and nervous

I know it's not something to complain about going on holiday but I used stress myself out going on holiday before I had my daughter as I'm not organised as much as I try to be. But now I've got to prepare my things as well as hers. I'm living a nightmare in my head with how much stuff I've got to sort. For context...

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Overwhelmed

Im sat here absolutely balling my eyes out, my emotions have been crazy lately but I feel so fed up. Im 27 weeks and 5 days pregnant and I am struggling so much now. I wasn’t before but now I just went from a high to a really low. I cant cope, Im so overwhelmed. The closer it gets to giving birth to more I just feel...

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Am I bad mum? I feel awful.

My 2 year old fell down our stairs today (top to bottom) and got off lightly with just a cut in her lip. I called 111 just to be sure as I was panicking due to the height and her age, but she has no injuries, not bumps, cuts a bruises and is totally normal within herself. 111 advised to go to a&e anyway to be checke...

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Nursery

My son currently does one a week at nursery and has since September. He does one other day with my mum. The nursery are trying to get us to do another day but I really don’t want too. They say it will help him as sometimes he has a bit of a cry when he is there (he is happy on the whole). I love our days together an...

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Time for myself

So my partner goes to the gym Monday to Thursday from work and doesn't get back until it's bed time for our girls. I work Friday evening Saturday and Sunday and have the girls 24/7 apart from few hours one day a week. I've been voicing how I'd like to get back into the gym to which he says you can go when I get home...

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In-laws not seeing baby.

What’s the longest your in-laws has gone without seeing your LO? My boy is nearly 9 months and they haven’t seen him since… BEFORE CHRISTMAS!!

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Relationship advice

So we are 3 months into our second daughter (our first one being 2). This time round it's hit us hard, we've both struggled adapting to multiples. However we've been getting more and more frustrated with one another the past couple of weeks. He has his own business and is super busy all the time. Which means I take...

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