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Hair loss

To 2nd time moms…WHEN IS MY HAIR GOING TO GROW BACK? Lmao my son is 5 months old today. I’m still losing lots.

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Just don’t think I can do this anymore

Just had a serious conversation with hubby about giving up trying . After a recent miscarriage and surgery I just feel like I can’t go through this systematic torture anymore which is consuming my whole life . Not the first time it’s happened . I’m grateful for my little boy already and I feel I may have to give up ...

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MIL Talking About My Cervix……

So I’m overdue with my 3rd baby by a few days. I’m certainly exhausted and ready to have the baby, but I am more so sick and tired of everybody asking me if I’ve had the baby yet, or if I’m still pregnant, or if labour has started yet. It’s been just about every day for a week now. I’m ready to lose my shit on every...

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Nerves

I’m so nervous to have 2 so close together and also feel so guilty as my LO is still so little she’ll be around 18 months old when I’m due and needs me and I just feel like I’m letting her down! Has anyone had these feelings before?

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Anyone else not adjusting as easily as they thought they could?

I love my babe she’s 4 months old. But I just… I hate being a mom. I hate having to make decisions when I’m burned out and my brains completely running on empty. Sometimes I fantasize about leaving and never coming back then I feel so guilty for feeling like that cause all I’ve ever really wanted in life was to be a...

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Nursery advice

How did everyone’s babies take to Nursery? My baby is 15 months old. She has only ever been with me/partner or my mum for a few hours here and there. At baby groups she seemed confident and happy. We started our nursery settling in days last week. First day I was there with her 1 hour and she was fine. Second day w...

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am i just delusional? (little rant)

i'm 33 weeks+5 with my first and i was talking with my boyfriend about how i love having my hand on my stomach when i feel our son up against and it's wholesome because it feels like im actually holding him in my arms which i can't wait to do. he says to me that im gonna miss when he was just in my stomach when he's...

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I just had a WOW moment! I am about to be 27 yrs old and realized where my anxiety came from. My mom being strict and having high standards for me made me have a lot of anxiety. I had to please her, make her proud, find ways to fix…

My mistakes before she would notice. Last week she said to me that my anxiety has lessened a lot… I thought to myself… yeah bc I’m not driving myself crazy to make you proud of me or to live up to who you think I should be. I feel so relieved now! What does your anxiety stem from?

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Much needed venting…

I feel like every time my life gets better, I get into a huge deep depression phase and I’m in one now. I have a great husband but we’ve our love language isn’t the same which makes hard. I have no friends and I’ve been trying so hard and this is my third time trying but it doesn’t go anywhere. My in laws talk crap ...

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Becoming a Stay-at-Home Mom (suddenly)

Well, here I am—suddenly a stay-at-home mom to a wildly active 2-year-old while 4 months pregnant, thanks to federal budget cuts and layoffs. To say I’m terrified is an understatement. I’ve always worked, so this shift is completely new (and overwhelming) for me. SAHMs— how do you do it? What routines, activit...

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Hair fall out

Hello, I was looking for some advice since my GP surgery and the ones near me constantly say they have no appointments available for months. I want to know if anyone else is going through the same thing. My hair started falling out after having my baby. I thought it was normal post partum hair fallout but it’s bee...

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Baby becoming hysterical when left with dad/family members

My baby is just over three months old and has had a close relationship with her father and my family since birth. However, over the last few weeks she has started to cry and get hysterical when I leave her with anyone else (including her dad). This is making it very difficult for me to do anything (as in shower, w...

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Baby blues

My baby girl is a week old today & I am starting to really struggle with my emotions. One minute I’m absolutely fine, the next I feel very tearful.. Will this subside soon? I feel awful for not feeling happy 100% of the time.

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Pp Rage

Is it normal to feel angry consistently. I feel like I’m constantly about to blow up and my partner always call me toxic..

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Struggling mum

New mum to my 2 week old baby girl. Really struggles to settle after her feed and will cry for hours at night. I try everything with changing her, feeding her, burping her. But nothing consoles her. I love her to bits and am so besotted by her just feel so helpless 😔

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I hate myself

Honestly do not want to be here anymore i seriously fucked my whole life up over something stupid I drank when I was pregnant two beers and fireball small glass when I was 26 weeks I feel like I’m rolling in a grave right now

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Mental breakdown

Hello im a sahm to 2 girls. My mom suddenly died and it has flipped my life upside. Idk what to do, I am trying. But I am not okay. My husband is trying but I am angry, anxious, have anxiety and am on the verge of a mental breakdown all the time Idk why I’m writing this, I don’t know what to do

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Depression

My husband mother passed away. I know he is hurt. But yesterday I felt so disconnected with him. This morning he told me his ex girlfriend mother called him yesterday. Should I be upset over it?

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Anxiety

Not sure about anyone else but I have been really sad that I am not having a summer baby like I had always wanted. I know I am super lucky to be pregnant, it’s just hardPlease no hating on me for feeling like this. Struggling with my mental health, coming to terms with nothing going to plan and scared about post pa...

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8 months postpartum self hatred

anyone else literally hate themselves at this stage? my hair is thinning i fit in none of my clothes due to apron belly my skin is awful and my face is really fat now. pre pregnancy i was a size 6, now because of my tummy im a 10-12. honestly sounds silly but im beside myself. i feel so down and demotivated i can’t ...

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