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Depressed

I've just been so depressed lately. I'm crying randomly, I want to get out of the house but at the same time I don't. I think I just really need a break. I keep getting overwhelmed) overstimulated and start freaking out then feel bad for freaking out and then in crying and start crying more for crying and feeling th...

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Don’t know what to do anymore

I can’t seem to find the right medication and the one now makes me feel like I made a mistake becoming a mom. I’ve been depressed what seems like my whole life. I just want a normal life.

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Hair loss and greasy!

HELP my hair is falling out 4 months PP and my hair as soon as I wash it the next day it’s greasy but I also have a dry flakey scalp🥲. Someone please any shampoo and conditioner recommendations to stop the greasy hair and dry scalp. I’m currently using OLAPLEX on my hair the masks to help strengthen and there…

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2nd child

I look back at newborn photos and it’s bittersweet. It makes me kind of want one more. Fear & anxiety is holding me back. I didn’t have the best experience. I was in pretty dark place postpartum for awhile. Any other moms let fear or anxiety hold you back from expanding your family?

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Ladies on SSRI’s

How long did it take for you to feel different, and what dosage (if you don’t mind sharing). I’ve just been prescribed sertraline (for anxiety not depression) I’ve been on it 2 weeks now and I don’t really feel any different

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Starting to understand the people who don’t want kids

I’m 4m pp and really stating to think I should never have had a kid, my mental health is a wreck, there’s not one bit of self esteem left in me, I constantly feel like I should be doing better. And all my baby wants to do is scream at me 3hrs it’s been going on. I’m really starting to see why people don’t want kids ...

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Feeling sad

I just came across a video of a mum to be on TikTok and she was crying because it's making her sad it's not going to be just her and her partner anymore although she's happy to have a baby. I just watched it and it's made me sad it'll never be just me and my partner again, obviously I'll love my baby unconditionall...

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Mood plummeted at nearly 38 weeks

So as the title indicates, I'm 37.5 weeks pregnant and recently my mood has completely divebombed. I am feeling so low, irritable, have uncontrollable bounts of crying and generally feel very anxious. I also feel like speaking to no one which I know isn't ideal when you're feeling low but I'm just feeling so miserab...

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Battled with depression for a decade now.

I’ve never felt so depressed and defeated in my life. I have been battling depression for quite sometime now. I’ve never had a simple life. The past 2 years have been hard for me. I will be a new mom and I have nothing. I live alone. I have a job (thankfully) but I have no car, no friends or social life, no food, ba...

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Moms I just need to VENT!

I have a 2 yr old.. she literally cries about everything when she wants something I be so confused on what she actually wants and it’s so frustrating I literally just wanna cry🥺💕

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Husband thinks I should get over my postpartum anxiety

I had my first baby in October and have had a fair deal of postpartum anxiety. I think a lot of it is normal for being a first time mom. My husband has two kids from a previous relationship so he’s not as nervous about things as I am. He pretty frequently teases me about things like pretending to drop the baby. I’ve...

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Postpartum Rage

Has anyone experienced postpartum rage? How do you manage it? Any tips? I feel like lately everything has been overwhelming me and things that would not normally bother me has been setting me off

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Intimacy

Anyone else hasn’t had sex with their husband since the baby!? It’s been almost a year. Idk if I’m scared, not attracted to him anymore or just never cared for sex!

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Struggling

My daughter is almost a year old and I still feel horrible everyday. I feel like I’m failing in every aspect as a mother. I’m a young mom with no support and with an emotionally abusive husband who treats me more like a servant than a wife. I have severe mental health issues, trauma, and health issues…I didn’t wan...

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Done/Venting

I’m 5 months pregnant and have a 4year old. Got into an accident and found out my husband is cheating on me and has a kid from the dashcam videos. His family knows and I’m just being taken as a fool that will sweep things under the rug. They won’t know what hit them when I pull the rug from under them. Just bidding ...

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Mil

I hate my mil , hate hate hate hate. She’s basically not my mil anymore just my daughter grandmother because me and my daughters father have finally separated after 4 long hard years. Anyways so on Easter was probably now the fourth time she has apologized to my child for her being with me. “I’m sorry your mom came ...

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fed up, vent

i’m 35+3 and i feel so bad for wishing this last 5 weeks to hurry up but i’m just really struggling. i know people say to enjoy and savour this time but i just can’t wait to meet my baby and get my body back. im getting cramps and back pains daily, leg pains, constantly just exhausted, sickness is back and im just s...

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Postpartum aching

Has anyone else had really bad postpartum joint aching? Im 4 weeks post csection and my knees and hips hurt so much when I get out bed/up from sitting. I do a lot of walking each day and try to do stretches. Is this normal and when can I expect it to stop?

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Is there a correlation?

Recently, I've been thinking about high needs babies and trying to figure out if there's a link between a difficult/challenging baby and traumatic perinatal experience. How was your pregnancy experience? How was your birth? Is your baby easygoing, or are they fussy and irritable no matter what you do?

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Guilt with your first kiddo...

Now that we are getting closer, I have started struggling with the idea that it won't be just me and my daughter during the day anymore. I've been a SAHM during the day since last June and the connection I have with my 2yo is unmatched. I feel super guilty to both her, and poor new little girl. I obviously love them...

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