Your soul knows the answer to this. It will Hurt but it is the best for everybody. Your self love should be in first place.
What is his disability? I only ask because it seems that he appears to be picking and choosing how it affects his life to suit his needs/narrative?
@Carrie I've told him many times how I feel. I've even told him that it we could just get into a routine where we only run errands on certain days, that would be so much better for me. But it never works out that way.
@Incognito I just need a better routine. And I need a break sometimes. He knows these things.
@Jennifer he had a disease that gives him tunnel vision, night blindness, and even with glasses or contacts, he'll never be able to drive our even get to 20/20 vision.
@Jessica sad but true. He has already told you what he wants over and over. Its not easy to go through the emotions of it, but clearly, he's gone through them without you realising it.
Yeah I’m not buying it. How’s he able to flip houses and drink heavily yet not be fit enough to drive? Sounds to me like he’s full of shit.
@Jessica I've left before, multiple times actually. Always end up coming back...
@Jennifer you don't need to be able to see to eat or drink. He was at his friend's house drinking. He has vision, just not enough to ever drive. As far as flipping the house, he had a guy doing the majority of the work. He's really just supervising him, because the last person we attempted to have do the work unsupervised messed the house up instead of fixing it.
Are you married? Because if not, you’re highly unlikely to see any benefit financially from the flipping of the house. It sounds like you’re making excuses for his poor behaviour. Do whatever makes you happy, but it sounds like this isn’t it.
I can feel the sadness. My partner is 13 years older and lives overseas. We are very similar, when apart we miss each other a lot, but often find it hard to get into a routine... have you spoken to him about how you feel?