My partner not helping out

So my partner works one shift a week and won’t look for a job that offers more just expects me to pay for everything for him and lately every time I ask him a question he bites my head off, I asked him about the baby feeds time last night as he is on night shifts turns out he didn’t feed baby because he was asleep bare in mind I did most of the feeds yesterday and last night he did one and now I don’t know if I trust him to take care of baby when I’m sleep he does night shifts because of my medication and I just feel like I can’t trust him and he is leaching onto me financially

Show your support

Yeah he doesn’t sound supportive or helpful to you in any way. You’d be better off on your own by the sounds of things 🤍

Can’t think what he’s adding to your life

Get rid. Sounds like he’s got a roof over his head and happy sitting back without working for anything because you’re letting him. Doesn’t sound like he’s benefiting your life in anyway here Xxx

Not feeding the baby is neglect. Ye needs to set an alarm incase he falls asleep. It is not good enough and he needs a huge kick in the arse for his behaviour

Honestly get rid, its unlikely he will change. I know it's easier said when you're not in the situation and you might be scared of being single but trust me you'd be 100% better without him. My boyfriend works long hours in a manual job and still helps out with our son, I do most things because I'm on mat leave but he's still is involved where he can be and often tells me to go to bed and will use my pumped milk so that he can feed him while I get some sleep. Like others have said it's neglect not feeding the baby, idk how anyone can be like that his child should come first

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