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Heya! My husband and I have been together for 11 years, we’ve had 3 kids in 3.5 years and the spark is non existent. We are room mates at this point. We barely have sex maybe once a fortnight? And it’s usually because he’s complained so much that I’ve given in.
I’ve always been interested in women, and the older I get the more I feel this way. I find my self thinking about it all the time. We’ve talked divorce but dont want that for the kids. He’s a great dad and I’m a great mum and We make it work. We don’t want to tear the family apart. I’m at a complete loss here. We’ve been at this point for the past 9 months. Any advice would be great 😌
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@Kerri he would never go for that 😭
Have you spoken to him about how you are feeling? And about your attraction to women? I know it will be a really tough conversation but I feel like if you don’t you’ll end up both unhappy in the long run as your needs aren’t being met, but staying for the sake of the kids x
I agree with Kerri. To be honest, I told my man how I felt about women, and honestly, he was okay with it. Honestly, when we feel the sex is not like it should, we would both agree to inviting a woman in. I say talk to him and see if he's open to it. I think i will save your marriage. Yal need more excitement having kids take that time away.
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If you aren’t looking for a divorce, maybe opening your relationship up to another woman might solve both your problems?