Which did you find harder?

Those of you with multiple kids already, did you find it harder going 0-1 or 1-2? I found going 0-1 extremely hard, had ppd, anxiety, rage, ptsd from the birth, birth trauma, unable to bond, unable to breastfeed so had to pump. Was really shit. So I’m hoping it will be easier to go from 1-2 but I often hear mixed thoughts so wanted to get an idea of what other people feel ☺️
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Can completely relate and so would be interested in what others say! X

1-2 is hard don’t get me wrong but it’s also easier than the first because you know what your doing and your a lot more confident in dealing with things ! Currently pregnant with my third and not phased at all 🫶🏻🥺 you’ll do fantastic so don’t stress xx

Agree with @Jade Moore it is still hard and exhausting but easier than 1st. I'm now on number 5 🙈🤣😍

I know how you feel. I'm hoping I can enjoy the baby phase a bit more this time around, because I really didn't first time! Fairly certain this will be my last baby too. But it will be a very different experience regardless with a toddler to keep up with as well 😂

1-2 is more than twice the work, but also more than twice the benefits. If you manage it right, there is a massive abundance of love and happiness, as its not just about your relationship with baby this time, it's seeing the relationship between your children too. Which brings so much extra joy! And in case your wondering, 2-3, well your already doing it all anyway so that doesn't make a massive amount of difference, but again, loads more love 😍 and going 3-4, well il let you know in September if I'm still sane 🤣

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