In the same boat and trying!
Our boys are 23 months apart and are so in love with each other. With that said If we had another, i would prefer a 3 year age gap. If I had a baby now my eldest is 3, he can use the toilet himself, get himself dresses, doesn't run off so much, is more carful around his brother, more risk aware and will be entitled to some hours at nursery soon. It would have been so much more enjoyable a year later! If you have loads of support I'm sure it's easier xxxxx
Exactly same! Daughter is one and we are in mid 30's so deciding if and when going to try for 2nd xx