@Kara awh hun im glad u finally had youre 2nd
I haven't personally dealt with these struggles but I have close friends and family members who have. Some had no known fertility issues and it still took months to years. I don't think there's anything wrong with taking a step back from trying and just say if it happens it happens.
I know how you feel I tried for 7 years for our 2nd baby and I actually gave up trying as nothing was happening then I fell pregnant so we have an 8 year age gap between our 2 children x