Is it just me or

Is it just me or does anyone feel as if their significant other is not as excited about having a second baby as you are ? I feel as my bf was somewhat excited for the first baby but hasn’t been very involved in the sense of my daughter only ever wanting me to do anything/everything for her, even if her dad offers to help she denies his help. I just feel that I’m going to have sooooo many more tasks with having my second and also doing everything for my soon to be 3 year old.