@Freya we have been the opposite, I was totally sucked into a false sense of security with my first and paying for it nowš x
Different challenges. My first came at 28 weeks, hasnāt slept through the night heās 22 months now but plays independently a lot. My second is a great sleep but loses her shit if she doesnāt see me lol sometimes not even day can calm her
Second was very chilled until he turned 1, then he turned into little demon š¤£
My first was an absolute nightmare as a newborn, heās the sweetest and I love him but he is still harder than most now as a toddler. The one thing we got with him was sleep. My second is an angel. Sheās got some tummy problems so keeping a restricted diet for breastfeeding is hard and she doesnāt sleep like at all, but I will take it 100% over the experience with my first. Sheās actually āsmileyā and doesnāt scream all the time. Itās great.
My first was such an easy baby, so chilled but now sheās 18 months and feral with an attitude and no fear! My 4 month old was a hard baby to start with, due to no fault of her own (medical problems) but sheās slowly getting much better!
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My first baby was suuuuuuch a difficult baby, but my second couldnāt have been easier he was so chilled