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another one?!
my baby is four and a half months and my husband wanted one after the other but i’m trying to long it out as long as possible lool. for the mums who do have two under two how hard is it and how long should i wait. i had a really easy birth experience so i think that’s why he thinks i can do it again
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Omg do not get pregnant before you're ready! I personally needed a good 3 years between pregnancies and I would have been furious if my partner had pushed me to move faster than I was prepared for. His abstract preference takes a huge backseat to your actual lived experience!
see it’s a tough one cause i do want another one but everyone says that two under two is really hard so it’s putting me off. i also feel like i’ve recovered 100% but then i heard if you do it too soon together then you’ll struggle more. a lot of people say wait two years but then people who do have them close together seem to manage
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It’s your body carrying the baby! If you don’t want to have another baby right now then you’re not obliged to do so, wait until you feel ready and talk to your partner about this x