So what would u do
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@rissa it would be an awful time for me lmaooo
Nope!
Okay I told my hubby NO but I also have guilt about it I didn’t know if I was power tripping or if it’s fair to my hubby
Pretend you didn’t even get an invite lol, play dumb and make plans elsewhere 😂
I’d go, both sides being more present would probably be the best way to resolve it
I would leave the ball in your hubbys court. If he wants to go then go but I’d bring myself wine personally
I can’t pretend Hubby told Me They don’t own up To anything so nothing will get resolved if I go
And like I will be miserable the entire time playing nice and fake Totally not my character.
Hmmmm what does your husband think of the situation with mil? Does he want to go to her Xmas dinner? That would maybe influence my decision on whether to go or not
He’s upset with his whole family but he also so he doesn’t care now if they ever see the kids again
Easy NO she does not msg , vist , check up or anything speaks she does not care. Wouldn’t waste your time on someone like that.
Thank you that’s how I feel too! But I also am scared my hubby will feel resentment towards me
Nope don't go. I would even go no contact
Hell no.
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If she hasn’t done or said anything directly offensive to you and your family besides just not being present enough, I would go. It’s a little odd to me to complain about not being invited or checked up on then not go when you do get invited. At the end of the day it’s for your kid. Might as well let them be around the little time they can as long as MiL hasn’t done anything blatantly offensive
If someone doesn’t make an effort to see or ask about my baby, I’m not making an effort to fake nice. We are invited to all gatherings or not. My husband lets me decide on these things as well. I don’t have an issue being a bad guy either if it’s in my child’s best interest.
I mean is it a reason? And I would slide thru for a second just so they can see her! And see if the vibes changed
I love how some People are saying yes go you’re being ridiculous and some are saying fuck no I wouldn’t go 😂
Just for reference I have a 15 month old and a 4 month old.
@Karly free will is a thing, he could go himself if he so chose
@rissa yeah he can if he wants to. But I don’t want my babies to go there without me
@Karly updates on the situation?? as long as ur comfy. im going thru something similar (hubby is not my bd, family pretends to like me just bc my baby. my baby will be w her father on xmas and my hubby doesnt get why i dont wanna go)
@rissa not yet! He knows I’m not going LOL DM me if ya wanna chat about it
you know her (and your family) better than i do. if you think it would be a nice time, go! however the fact that its a question speaks volumes. good luck!