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My partner went round to his mates house last night just to chill, he said he wouldn't be late. I thought it was strange that he didn't tell me he arrived there safely and I didn't hear from him for hours. I decided to call him just to check he was okay as I'd messaged him a couple of times to just make sure he was safe. He didn't answer the phone. It gets to 11ishpm and my girl had an early night and went to sleep at 4pm(which is unusual for her as she loves her bottle ) Anyways baby wakes up at 11pm and is awake until 4ish am. I've had about an hour of broken sleep btw. So I text him at 11:30 to say baby is awake and is fully awake. No reply. I call him three times he finally answers on the third go and says he's in a taxi going to town. I basically told him to fuck off at this point and to stay at his mates house. He got back to his mates at 4:30am and came to the house this morning at 10am. Let's just say I flipped my fucking shit and haven't spoken to him since he got home. What's everyone's thoughts?
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You did the right thing girl cos I’ll do the same , at least he could pick up and say he’ll be late. I’ll be fuming too!!!

@Justina thank you. He's made me feel like im being crazy !

Honestly, what the hell. Has he done anything like this before? Even before baby was born?

Totally unacceptable. You’re well within your right to be angry x

@Ellie no never which is so weird

@sarah thank you :(

@Ellie did you fully confirm he was at his mates house indeed ?

@Justina yeah he was definitely there and then went to town from his with their mates

Well i will say if today is the only time he’s done it then pls let it go. Just tell him he should communicate better next time and enjoy your relationship baby girl xx

Wow 😮 I would be so mad, that’s very irresponsible of him tbh ! Communication is key, else if this keeps happening then it won’t be good for the relationship

I would be fuming... What if it was an emergency and something was seriously wrong. Childish and irresponsible

I’d be pissed. It wouldn’t bother me that I didn’t hear from him initially or that he didn’t let me know he was safe, I find that a bit odd tbh, he’s a grown man so that isn’t something I personally would do. But not letting you know his plans had changed and he was going into town is a bit of a joke. The fact that he did ignore you all night though, either he may just find it a bit much you checking on him all the time if this is something you usually do when he’s with his mates, if not then I’d be questioning if he was being honest and even at his mates at all

I wouldve killed him!

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