Is he avoiding me ?
Haven’t seen my partner in 2 weeks which is so unusual as we use to see each other a lot more then that, he makes plans with me and then lets me down/not show up. he just chooses his friends/other plans over me. I’m 36 weeks pregnant so I would have thought he would want to see me a lot more as it’s the last few weeks of just us two. The other day, he told me he paid his female friend to take his braids out for him when I’m usually the one that does that.. he comes to me for that free of charge🙄 am I overreacting or is that just not ok? I just get the impression he’s so uninterested now and doesn’t care. All these things he’s doing and just not considering my feelings at all
The other week it was my birthday, I booked a hotel for us and he invited his older brother to come with us? His brother came to my birthday dinner as well when it was meant to be just us two😔 I feel so sad and alone I just don’t know what to do anymore
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This is super weird and concerning behaviour, at 36 weeks all bets are off really baby could come at any time and he's just... not around? I'd be asking him wtf he thinks he's playing at?
Do you live together? I'd be fuming, and we'd be having a very serious talk. He is either struggling with his impending fatherhood, in which case he needs to communicate, and he needs to communicate now and effectively, or he has left the relationship, inwhich case leave him and get court ordered custody and child support. Like his behaviour is so unacceptable it's ridiculous and you aren't reaching strongly enough. Congratulations on bubba, by the way.
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Do you think the reality of being a father is hitting him? Maybe it isn’t you he is avoiding but the situation? Just a thought..