I want out

I’ve been in my relationship for almost 5yrs and now I’m just done. He doesn’t consider my feelings in anything he does. If I’m upset about something he did, he never apologizes, lies, etc. just a whole slew of excuses like “that’s just the way I am, etc.” I literally asked the man for a hug one time & he told me “that’s not real life, you watch too much tv.” Like what????? We’ve had problems for the last couple years & I was always trying, hoping & praying he’d be better towards me but now I’m just done. Idc anymore & I want out. I also just found out he’s been cheating on me. I don’t want revenge, I’m not angry, I’m just done. I don’t have any fight left in me for this relationship but I have to stay until I can afford to leave. I’ve been a SAHM (not by choice) for the last couple years so I rely 100% on him financially. I don’t know where to get the money to leave but I swear I’m trying to figure it out. I wish the was an organization or something to help women in situations like this lol. I just want to move on with my life & start over
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Firstly, I hope you're doing okay. And well done for making the decision to leave I don't know where in the world you love but depending on where you are there are organisations and support out there to help people leave bad relationships. Failing that, start stashing away money every chance you can, buy gift cards when you go grocery shopping and put them aside, sell anything you think is worth some money. Maybe see if you can get a part time job? Wishing you all the best

if you can message me directly I would love to help you out 🥺 I know exactly how you feel.. ❤️‍🩹

Depending on where you live there are organizations, an they especially help with moms. I found a place for myself when I was pregnant, they provided me with housing (in an apartment with a roomate but we didn’t share anything but a kitchen) they help you for 18 months. You pay little to no rent, my rent was 60 dollars at the time but they didn’t even try to press me with it when I didn’t have it. They also provided child care for when I was finishing college (I didn’t take it because my fiancé or boyfriend at the time had him) but they provide whether you decide to go to college or work. They helped with my needed bills and stuff that the baby needed as well since I had just had the baby, they also did it with other moms there of course. They help you with resumes, getting work, they do a lot. I stayed with them for a year and ended up moving out with my fiancé because they helped me put a down payment on another apartment with him and it’s the best thing ever. That program the best.

You got this! You can get out of that if needed be!

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