I’m tired of his excuses

My boyfriend and I have two babies together. My oldest is 23 months old and my youngest is 11 months. So having the babies close in age is a bit difficult as you can imagine. I am able to handle the difficulties that it comes with as I have patience and love my babies too much. I work from home, also take care of my babies since my boyfriend works night shifts. I watch them in the morning so he could get sleep. It’s not as easy as it sounds. My boyfriend complains that I have it easy because I get to sit down and work from home and his job requires to have him be on his feet all day and pick up heavy boxes. What angers me is that he uses that excuse to do not do anything… I work, I clean, I cook, I take care of our babies…. I don’t get how that is considered easy. I have no help whatsoever. No village to count on, that’s including my biological mother and his mother. I feel like I’m taking care of 3 babies. All I ask is for him to pick up after himself. He can’t even throw his dirty dishes in the sink. I’m so tired. I’m starting to resent him… is anyone in the same boat? Any advise 🙁