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I would be waiting on the lobby when he is checking out. Bring some pepper spray in case he gets violent
If you have his game last name you can get the hotel key to his room and catch him red handed
@Lia I didn't get that.
I’d see it through. If you’re gonna go. See what he does after he checks in. Honestly though, is it even worth it? He’s obviously lying. Just move on.
@Lia sadly lots of hotels don’t allow this- if you’re not on the booking you can’t have a key. Perfect strangers with the same surname could help themselves into your room etc my husband (same surname) has had to call me to call reception and give him the room key and number because for security reasons they wouldn’t let him up. It’s a good thing i suppose
Why? You know the truth already. Closure sometimes makes things worse
Your main goal: get evidence! Do not confront him until you get all the info you want. 1. Where he’s staying, 2. With who? 3. WHY, etc. Take LOTS OF PHOTOS, screenshots of his hotel stays, etc. and then ask yourself, what do you want out of this? Answers? First decide: Is there a possibility that he could turn violent? How best can you be safe? Could he try and delete your evidence from your phone? Maybe save in the cloud as backup. Is it worth confronting? Or do you want to get your evidence and then leave the relationship?