Am I making a big deal over nothing?
I am 7 months pregnant and am supposed to be moving in with my boyfriend in the next day or so. He has not helped with any of the planning or packing and has left me to do everything (except pay) by myself. When I ask him to help pack he tells me “it’s not like it’s right around the corner and I’m doing stuff at our house” (it’s a 1.5 hour drive) or says the weather is bad (he knew we’d be getting bad weather and couldn’t for some reason plan ahead to come to my place prior to it getting bad. I am so upset and feel like he doesn’t care.
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Was he like this before?
@Klaudia maybe occasionally but it’s the worst it’s been currently
You are 7 months pregnant with his baby and he let you deal with moving on your own... Trust people when they show you who they are. I'm very sorry
Do not move in with him. It will only get worse if you do. He thinks he got you trapped being pregnant. And beware of the love bombing he might give to try to manipulate you to still move in. It’s all an act to trap you.
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You feel like he doesn't care because he doesn't. Be very careful how you proceed with him. I can tell you from experience that selfish, dismissive behavior won't just disappear when the baby is born.