Husband says hurtful things
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@Ali I try to explain my feelings to him for example I’m a bit sick and I asked him if he can put the boys to bed bc my body hurts and he ignored me. I ask him if he can help me out with our dog and he ignored me. He said he feels like a slave to me but honestly I feel like I do it all.. I’ve been told that he’s miserable, some female I got in a argument with told me that and idk how she knows that 🤷🏻♀️ he denied it and now all of a sudden he wants to tell me that he’s miserable with me..he’s always saying hurtful things like “you need to wear makeup to look pretty” .. he’s a narcissist. I texted him in a good calm way explaining my feelings and he takes it as arguing when in reality I’m communicating how I feel.. my parents see how he ignores me when he’s around his family. Not just me but he ignores my family to the point where they don’t even want to visit me anymore bc they feel uncomfortable
@Ali I have 3 boys with him and I have tried talking to him and fixing things bc I do care and love him but I feel like he’ll love bomb me and then all of a sudden hurt me emotionally..
Sucks for sure , have you said things to him before and what do you argue about ..eg. After 5min arguing he said it or about something specific... is he hot head... or your hot head and lot of screaming/yelling . Do you have kids? And are you miserable with him also? Not lot info to go on...