No desire

Keep seeing that some of August baby mums are pregnant again! How! I have zero desire, I'm constantly anxious and in survival mode. I hate my body now with my massive mum pooch and covered in stretch marks. My partner wants sex and I just don't...:( I feel awful about this :( anyone else?

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Same. I think we've had sex 5 times, and I've not enjoyed it. I didn't find this with my son, I'm not sure if it's because I'm bf this time. I definitely don't want any more children, and unless they are accidents, I can't understand getting pregnant so soon. I just want to enjoy my baby, she's growing too fast as it is, without me feeling shit and not fully enjoying it. Like you, I don't feel confident in my appearance, but I just don't feel the urge, at all. I'm hoping this changes because I do feel bad for my husband. He was getting more at the end of my pregnancy than he is now

I currently have severe ppd and i feel exactly the same. I literally dont want to do anything. With all 3 of my children ppd hit me bad at 4 month. It does go away - but theres nothing wrong with asking your GP/HV/a friend for help. Ppd & ppa is really common Youre not doing anything wrong for feeling this way and i promise it will get better xx

Brave, brave women 🤣 hats off to them! I couldn't do it!

I also don't feel like it at all, I also had an episiotomy and forceps delivery, plus since then I've had urinary incontinence since giving birth so don't feel particularly sexy with my special pants (!)

i don’t feel like it too i had an episiotomy, i want to want it again if that makes sense 🤣🤣

I don't sleep with my boyfriend and father of the baby 8 month and he is getting crazy about the topic of sex... But he was refusing when I was pregnant and wanted, now I have desire and focus on the baby, but we don't live together so it doesn't help.. Plus after vaginal birth has stitches, so I couldn't and BF now

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