Just venting (sorry if long)

So I'm not sure if I should stay with my man because he's not emotionally intelligent, conflict avoidance, emotionally stonewalls tf out of me , he doesn't like when I use big words , he is mad sarcastic when we argue ; triangulates me with his friends, puts me down . He makes me feel like I'm a roommate rather than a partner he will play his games all day not talk to me. He tells his friends everything especially his bestie ; which isn't the issue : doesn't tell me anything and unless I ask, he doesn't have deep conversations with me anymore if I ask him about his day he will say it was fine , but then I'll over hear him telling his bestie about detailed convo of his day, if he does give me affection, if he does it's literally just to bother me And not actual admiration or caresses. He lies to me about stupid stuff. Our current issue is the fact that he bought a brand new car and traded his coup for a family car and told me that I would be able to drive the car and enjoy just like him, but he makes it a point to let me know that it's his car. a few mins ago admitted he lied to me so I would be quiet about being able to drive it because I've had a piece of shit car for years. I was upset because I thought I deserved a new car. When he's had several new cars and I understood that it was a trade in value but . I'm just at a loss. He leaves the baby alone longer than he should to play games , he doesn't listen to me to understand but to reply. I don't feel heard I don't feel seen I'm not happy ,but I can't just leave him. He almost burned our apartment down and then the fire alarm shot 4 inches of water into our apartment, and now we have to move. Only after 5 months., he's not nice to me , he always throws slick ass comments at me when we argue . And he shuts down. I don't even know how else to cope. I told him today that im done . He asked what that means And I just said im just done talking like anything I say is me attacking and complaining . He says I need my own friends so he's prolly right. But I've had 2 besties and they both betrayed me in some horrible way. So it's hard for me to make female friends. I'm sorry if this is all over the place I'm thinking and straight typing .