Is this normal?How much you hate your husband's family.

I’m going through the same thing…It’s horrible.

same same same. i dislike the kind of people they are so much. they have never done anything huge to me, just little things. but they are horrible people. very toxic and it affected my boyfriend very badly when he was growing up. we’re working on healing together.

"Hate" is a strong word...but I do see them differently than I used to. Basically, it seems like the only way to have a good relationship with them (especially my SIL, and then everybody else just kind of bows down to her because they don't wanna deal with her) is to keep your mouth shut and do things their way. Obviously, this is actually *not* a good relationship, and it's not something I'm interested in doing anymore, especially since my daughter is getting older. SIL is not allowed alone around my daughter anymore (and hasn't been for a while now), and MIL and FIL are only allowed alone with her in very short bursts.

@Sheila it's really hard for me