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It’s totally normal to feel like this, becoming a first time parent is the biggest whirlwind and huge life shift. As hard as it is try and take the pressure off getting things done around the house- the house is probably going to be messier than it was before and that’s okay! I would absolutely mention to your health visitor or midwife that you are having these feelings, they can refer you to someone to talk to, it’s important to prioritise yourself along side your baby- your wellbeing is essential to theirs x
This is totally normal, I still feel the exact same way and my baby is almost three months old. I just had to honestly come to terms with house being messy, I realized I was missing out on important bonding time with my son over dishes and vacuuming! and over stressing myself instead of enjoying moments I’ll never get back. Obviously moving is a different story, not sure what your financial situation is but hiring movers/packers even off a cash jobs page on fb or kijiji if you can’t afford from a company could be a lifesaver. If you’re not comfy having men in the house while you’re there , there is always women looking for cash jobs on fb that I see!
100% normal, even without moving house. So you def have the extra stress xx hang in there, it will over soon, don’t put too much pressure on trying to unpack everything in the first few days either. Time management and expectations was the biggest adjustment for us. You think you can still do everything you did pre baby, but alas we couldn’t. Everything takes longer, it’s normal. You have a new life depending on you now. It’s intense. You’ll get through this !
@Emma unfortunately all my family are very far away from me and I would love to do batch cooking but little one is crying every time I put him down so I just feel very stuck. Thank you so much for your lovely words and advice ❤️
Do you have a sling or a carrier you can pop baby in whilst you're cooking? Cleaning up? That way baby is still cuddled in and you have your hands free?
@Emma that’s a great idea, I didn’t even think of that. I’ll give it a try. Thank you
Sling/ baby carrier will be your best friend ☺️ although for now I would recommend to take it very easy as you are only 2 weeks pp.
You will cope. You're a strong mama and you've got this 💪. Being a first time mum is so overwhelming - take it day by day. Don't be afraid to ask for help from friends/family. Just because your husband is going back to work, doesn't mean he stops helping with baby/around the house too. If you get a chance batch cook meals & freeze them.