I don’t want to be around my bd

He’s been rude to me lately and then pretends like everything is fine when he’s done being a jerk. Yesterday I left to spend the night at my mom’s house with our baby and before we left I told him bye and he said bye “inserts our baby name” instead of saying bye to both of us. Now that I’m back home… I still don’t wanna be around him and I’m hiding in our other bedroom. And yes I’ve tried to talking to him plenty of times about how he hurts my feelings and then he apologizes and ends up being mean again. Im tired.

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If talking isnt working and leaving for the night isnt helping him see things need to change either, those are not good signs of who he is as a person. Are you planning to leave?

@ren I’ve been thinking about leaving. My parents even offered me to come back home. Our lease is up in April so I’m not sure if I should stick it out until then? But I’m so unhappy.

How old is the baby? Do you think something may change by April?

Dont waste time unless you think theres hope or benefit to staying that its like worth it. It's not good to be so sad the baby and you both need you to be "living your best life" or ya kno like in a healthy environment and be able to thrive. To get away from negativity feels really great. There's a lot to consider of course I'm sure.

@ren my baby is 6 weeks. I’m hoping if he finds a job then things will get better. But yeah he sits in silence for hours while he’s next to me and it’s weird. I just don’t feel like our relationship is doing good and I’m not happy. We talked again last night and he doesn’t want me to leave but I don’t know how much longer I can take if he doesn’t fix his attitude.

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