Why isn’t he affectionate?
So me and my partner have been together 6 years, we have a daughter together and we live together however he’s not really affectionate with me, sexually yes he is but cuddling/kissing or any other kind of affection he isn’t, I understand that people aren’t affectionate I get that but I’ve spoken to him about this and he just says he will try but I feel like you shouldn’t have to try and be affectionate with someone? Personally I am affectionate but I always feel like do I hug him or will he not like it, he just isn’t affectionate at all and it’s so upsetting because I just feel like does he not love me? I just don’t know what to do and it’s getting me down
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@Heather I did think this as I understand not everyone’s love language is the same however he says “he doesn’t know what his love language is” he rarely shows me any love to be honest other than sexual
I'd sit him down and have him take the quiz and then have a conversation of how yall can compromise so both of your needs are met.
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Have you looked into both of your love languages? You could be two different types of love languages.