With dinner we just give her what we are having 80% of the time if it’s something with pasta or rice etc. I just make sure I shred the meat and cut things as needed for example I cut coin shaped carrots in half the other day when we had a stew
I pretty much do what we do these days
My lo has had both spag bol and chilli this week just served the same as ours. I spoon fed the chilli cos I thought it'd be too hard / messy to hand scoop! (haven't given her her own cutlery to use yet), and only chopped the kidney beans in half, otherwise same as ours. And chopped the spaghetti up a bit, but just gave that on a plate for her to scoop.
Highly recommend checking out Solid Starts app. There are detailed picture / videos and video examples of age appropriate servings for an entire library/catalogue of food. We've always given her large chunks to hold as per the advice on Solid Starts at what we learned at our Infant First Aid Course