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@Devika do we even acknowledge the gift though? Do we send them a text saying thank you?
That's what I started doing i just casually say oh thank you so much 😊 for the gift you really didn't had to bother but this really means a lot, thank you either u use the money or gift or keep it aside once our kids grow up they will decide what to do with it, we can chill mamma. Life already has so much why we let them add or poison our mind 😉
@Devika my husband doesn’t want to respond to them, he’s really hurt by them and I don’t know if I should respect it or at least try to say thank you
I understand see of-cause they know their parents better and they do get hurt, but this is my personal experience it doesn't matter what kind of relationship they have with their sons but daughter in law are always the culprit and the reason for any thing goes wrong unless they are really good genuine people , so in future when ever they feel like playing another drama they play victims in front of their sons and try to get the sympathy and makes us feel bad 😞 which causes unnecessary drama between us, so just have a clear communication with your husband as if he doesn't wish to respond tell him that you respect his feelings and would always put him first but that same should be his thoughts too and no third person should have the right or reason to cause any kind of problems between you. You both are same team he should always remember that ☺️
@Devika thank you so much for your response and time! Truly agree! Unfortunately I don’t think I can ever change how they view me :( and I just need to focus on my little family and make sure it doesn’t affect my marriage! ❤️
Yes dear I learned it in a hard way so i wish for you and others to have safe emotional pains as some people doesn't understand that the emotional hurt leaves scars which doesn't get healed as easily as the physical ones 😔
Enjoy the gift, ignore there drama 🎭 trust me they may be waiting for you to fuel ⛽️ the drama so they have more to create so don't give them, in-laws starts freaking out and gets annoyed when you don't react to theirs stupidity as your reaction or showing your feelings is like entertainment for them. Keep your emotions to yourself and people you can trust.