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Prodromal labor

So last night I started contracting around 530. They were pretty inconsistent for about 45 min then they started coming every 3-4 min. OB said to go ahead and go to L&D. They get me on the monitor and you can definitely see that I was contracting and fast. They checked me and my cervix was still long and I was only...

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Early labour?

Does this look like early labour ? Iā€™ve been having contractions since about 3pm but less frequent , only been timing them the last hour. Had a sweep yesterday and had bloody show this morning , induction is booked for Friday incase the sweep hasnā€™t worked

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Mucus plug/bloody show

Iā€™m 35 + 5 and today I think I lost my mucus plug which had a pinky tinge to it. I rang triage and they said they arenā€™t concerned unless my waters break, baby has reduced movements or I have pains. I had a miscarriage before falling pregnant and didnā€™t have a period between the miscarriage and falling pregnant so...

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Anyone had 2 c-sections and Been able to have a vb

So I've had 2 c-sections 2years apart. I want more children in the future. I was told you couldn't have a vb after you'd had 2 c-sections but someone I met had 2 and then a vb 6 years after her last... Has anyone else had/heard of this. As I'd like a vb instead of another c-section.

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Mucus plug timeline

How long after losing your mucus plug did everyone go into labour? Google says could be weeks/ 1-3 days/ hours/ it can regenerate. I haven't had any other symptoms!

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Is a D&C painful?

I am really scared about the procedure. Looking for honest answers about whether it is painful afterwards etc. I would rather go in as knowledgeable as possible. Thank you!

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C section silicone patches

Hello, does anyone recommend the patches? I'm scared that my scar will become infected due to being on the bigger size and having a bit of a belly apron.

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Pregnancy

Has anyone got pregnant shortly after having their c section? How was your pregnancy, did you have any complications at all please ?

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Induction Reassurance

Ive been told today that I will be induced at around 39 weeks due to my GD and I am so scared. What Ive read on the nhs page online makes induction labours sound way more painful and my sister had a very intense labour as a result of being induced. I obviously want to be realistic and prepared for whats to come bu...

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When was your preemie born and how long did they have to stay in the NICU?

I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant after baby trying to come at 25 weeks. At that time I was given the steroid injections to help lung development. I'm just trying to get an idea of how long of a NICU stay baby boy may have if he does come early. I had my daughter at 36 weeks and she didn't need the NICU at all.

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Labour/pregnancy

Iā€™m due May 2025- Iā€™m a very small slim girl only 4ā€™8 size 4 , my partner is 6ā€™3 Did any mums struggle with severe pain due to how fast the baby grows and stretches your body? And did you struggle during labour? Have to have the baby early etc?

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Breech baby

Iā€™m 34 weeks today and have been told my baby is breech (head lodged nicely into my ribsšŸ„“). Iā€™ve been told if heā€™s still breech at 36 weeks Iā€™ll have a scan and an appointment to discuss my options including a c section. Itā€™s my first baby and Iā€™m not sure what to think about it all. Is anyone else in the sameā€¦

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Mucus plug!!!

Iā€™m almost 37 weeks and Iā€™ve been to the toilet and Iā€™m not sure if Ive lost my mucus plug or if itā€™s just discharge as itā€™s white can anyone give me any advice? Thanks

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C section thread

Anyone elseā€™s thread sticking out? I am almost 4 weeks post c section and noticed a small thread sticking out. šŸ˜…

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Spinal/Epidural

Does a spinal/epidural hurt? I have an awful pain tolerance. I have a C Section booked.

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Induction

Hi, I need to be induced in couple of weeks, possibly earlier depending on how my scan goes this afternoon. Does anyone have any advice and able to share their experiences? I keep seeing scary and negative things and itā€™s freaking me out a little.

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No birthing partner

I have been told my partner won't be able to be at the birth due to him having a bug (I'm being induced tonight) Is anybody else in a similar situation or have gone through labour on their own without a birthing partner? I feel quite scared, especially if I needed an emergency c section and I don't have a birthin...

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3rd baby?

Has anyone had a 3rd baby, we are considering having baby number 3, but I just wanted to know what peopleā€™s thought were after they had their 3rd. Was it harder? Whatā€™s the pros and cons?

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Lost mucus plug after sweep

Had my first sweep 1 week ago and lost some of plug the Thursday morning. Had my 2nd sweep yesterday and I was 1cm dilated, no pains or anything but lost more of plug. Any positive stories ?

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Leaking fluid at 29 weeks

Iā€™m 29w3d and had a huge gush of milky water this morning that left a puddle after being stood up for around 10 mins. Happened again around 5 mins later. Defo didnā€™t wet myself & wondering if anyone else has experienced this?

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