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Vera

(Sorry long birth story) Vera was born April 18th at 6:26pm weighing 6lbs 13oz and 20 inches long at 38weeks and 3 days. I woke up that morning at 4:30am thinking I either peed myself or I had a lot of watery discharge. I soaked through a pad but it was nothing like how people describe a water breaking so I just kep...

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Discharge

What this discharge could it be meaning of something or just normal So I have white creamy discharge not sure what this could it be I have as well nipple pain sensitive they quite bigger as well

Incognito
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Hospital bag

Ladies, how big is your hospital bag, for elective c sections, knowing you could be in for 3-4 days.

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VBAC Prep

I had an emergency c section for my first at 28 weeks and this time plan for an elective at 39 weeks however will labour vaginally if he comes before that - what labour essentials will I need? What books do you recommend etc? I’ve never felt a contraction nor reached the third trimester so this is all new! 🤣

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37 Weeks + 4 Days

I think I’m in denial, but I’m worried I could be in labor. I’ve been having on and off contractions since last night. During the night I had mild period like contractions every 5-10 minutes for three hours. They didn’t stop until I eventually fell asleep from exhaustion. They’ve resumed since I’ve woken up this mo...

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How would you handle this scenario?

My partner just told me he is planning to go on a stag at the end of may for one of his best mates. (I knew it was happening but i just assumed he would miss it bc of the baby)He’s planning to go for 3 days / 2 nights. Baby hasn’t arrived yet and we already have a 2 year old toddler. We live in London and not near...

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Why do people opt for planned CS? Please Educate us , a lot of us are just very un-educated about C-sections.

How do women in turkey feel about this ban ?

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Pulling and aching from c section - day 10

Anyone else had this? Felt good day 8/9 but today feeling achey x

Incognito
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Fit to fly

Has anyone got this when flying out? If so isit your doctor or midwife that provides this?

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C section recovery, I ache!

Did anyone else ache just generally everywhere? 10 days post c section and my body just aches, mainly my lower back and pubic area x

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Home Birth

Anyone planning on having a home birth with their first baby? We’ve just had our home birth assessment with the midwife and I’m feeling really positive about it!

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Hospital bag

When are you planning on packing yours?

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Tender

3 weeks post c section and my tummy still feels tender..how long does this last for ?

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Hospital bag

Really trying not to overpack this time, I am having a c section and not putting pressure on to breast feed - do you think I'm missing anything?

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How many weeks are you when you get c section date? (Uk based)

Just wondering if in the uk they leave it until 40 weeks or if you had yours earlier?

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Hip problems

Has anyone else experienced issues with their hips after having a C-section? My hips keep going what feels like out of place and cause pain and I have to move them back into place to be able to stop the pain and to move normally again.

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C sections and driving

When did people start driving again after there c section? I know it’s recommending 6 weeks but I’m 5 weeks 4 days and have no family around me and getting cabin fever 🙈🙈

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Talking to people about birth

Is it just me or does anyone else not like discussing birth? Don’t get me wrong, I discuss this with my husband and family all the time but we’ve been to some extended family events recently and so many people who I don’t know want to know the ins and outs of my birth plans and I don’t want to tell them anything. Bu...

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Post c section contractions (10 days)

Anyone else had these? I’m fine most of the day and then all of a sudden I get a little wave of contractions and my bowels tense and I have to empty them

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C section scar

I’m 11 days post op and wondering anyone else had a numb swollen strip above the incision scar? Is it normal to be a little puffy

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