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Induce

Going in to get induced tonight! I’m so nervous 😬

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How long did you wait to have sex with c section

Does anyone know if it is safe to have an organsm before 6 weeks ? I think your uterus contracts and is that bad for its healing ? Qnd would it hurt after.

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Changing hospitals

I’m due my second baby next year, I had my first at Hillingdon. But after the first couple of appointments I’ve decided Hillingdon isn’t were I want my care or the care/birth of my baby. Where else is near to Ruislip, I don’t think Watford is an option as heard bad reviews there as well.

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Had an emergency C-section in April 2023. Due with second child first week on Jan 2025. Don't know how to try to deliver.

VBAC (vaginal birth after C-section) has approx 75% success rate, 25% resulting in emergency C-section. Also has approx 0.5% chance of uterine rupture. Recovery should be better vs a C-section. Planned C-section obviously comes with it's own risks of major surgery. However planned C-section recovery is apparently b...

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losing mucus plug, how close could labor be?

I lost my mucus plug at 9am this morning, this is my first pregnancy. What could this mean & what are your experiences ?

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Naturally inducing labor

I am 39 weeks + 3 days.. any advice to naturally kick start this labor to avoid induction??

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Induction

40 weeks six days, was 1 cm dilated last appt, opting in for an elective induction, first kid was 13 days late with a need for an induction due to low amniotic fluid. I feel like I have tried all the things, sex, pumping, dates, pineapple, spicy foods, rolling on a yoga ball, yesterday I hiked 4 miles on a hilly tr...

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C Section Injections

Does anyone have to have the injections after C Section or does it depend? Thanks

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Breech Advice

Just come back from a growth scan and she’s breech (she’s on the 95th centile at 6lb7 for ref, she’s a growing gal 💪🏼) but I’ve been advised to look in to ECV’s and the potential of having a section if she doesn’t turn in the next 2 weeks. Does anyone have any advice on how I can help to encourage her to go head…

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Advice

I went into triage yesterday for reduced fetal movement, my first episode. As soon as I was put on the monitor baby started moving and met criteria. They admitted me for monitoring since I’m a high risk pregnancy and I’ve had three CTG monitors - 2 have passed and 1 has not, this was due to baby being asleep at the ...

Incognito
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Induction vs Elective C-Section

What would you choose? I’ve heard a lot of mixed stories on induction but want a vaginal delivery so bad, idk what to do

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c-section

i had a c-section last tuesday and got told to wear the stockings and do the injections for 10 days. The injections are fine. but did anyone not wear the stockings for the full time i feel like they are just getting on my nerves🙄

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Group B Strep

I’ve just had a call from one of the hospital midwives to tell me that a swab they took on Friday has tested positive for group B strep. She told me this means that if my waters break, I need to have my labour induced at the hospital immediately and that I’ll need IV antibiotics during labour. Does anyone have any e...

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Sharp pains

Keep getting sharp ish pains down in lower abdomen every few mins this morning.. Pretty sure I lost my mucus plug over the last couple of days. Is this a sign it's labour? (Early phase?)

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Feeling guilty

Idk if guilty is the right feeling but because of my c section recovery taking so long I could only do so much with my baby. Like tummy time. I did it in bed for a while and I still struggle getting up from the floor and picking him up since I started that. He is now 10 weeks old and we do it every day but I just s...

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Amniotic fluid or discharge?

Once yesterday and twice today I’ve leaked enough for it to go through to my pants. It’s not a ton any time, just enough to make a circle about 1.5-2 inches in diameter. It’s not leaking between times, which I read is a sign that your fluid sac has ruptured, and i definitely don’t think it’s enough to be my water fu...

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Induction? Elective C Section?

Hi ladies, I am currently in hospital as I have been offered an induction for tomorrow. (Well later today!) This is due to my health issues (All pregnancy related, I am severely anaemic, my pulse has been rising to the 200 mark at times) and baby’s movements have reduced. I have read the booklet that they have gi...

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She's here!

After a traumatic 72 hours in labour and not progressing, our precious little girl was delivered very safely in 3 mins via emergency c-section at 8Ibs. Due 5th October and arrived 14th. She's had to go into the NICU ward for breathing help and it turned out the reason I wasn't progressing was there was an infection ...

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Elective Induction: Scheduled Yet?

I’m planning to get an induction, but my OB said it’s still too early to schedule it, even though I’ll be 39 weeks in just 10 weeks. For those of you choosing to have an elective induction, have you already scheduled yours? I feel like it would be helpful to have the date in hand. Mine would be the last full week of...

Incognito
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Amniotic fluid leaking?

Has anyone experienced what they think is amniotic fluid leaking? I’m at l&d right now because I thought I felt a gush of water earlier. They did a swab and it came back negative. They then did an ultrasound and my AFI was 9.1 but three days ago it was 12.9. Doesn’t that mean I’m leaking? I’ve been here waiting...

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