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Daycare workers: would it be weird if a mother gave you her number (in a friend way, not a romantic way) before you went on mat leave?

One of the ECEs at my son’s daycare is going on maternity leave and won’t be back until after we’ll be moving on to kindergarten. We seem to click on a personal level and I could see us being friends. In her Christmas gift, I included a personalized note with well wishes and my number and said feel free to message...

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Gestational diabetes

So at my OBs office they told me they will not be doing the glucose test or any of that. At first I wasn’t worried but now I am, considering how bad it can actually be. I have PCOS which can cause issues with your sugar but have been prediabetic or anything. Has anyone had it? I would like to know symptoms.

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Midwife present

Hey girls, did any of you buy your midwife or any staff a present? If so, what was it? I need some ideas ✨❤️

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Appointments

I’ve just received my appointments on badger notes. I have my 12 week scan and bloods and then the next week I have a midwife led appointment at the hospital which I’m unsure of. Anyone know what this is for so I don’t make myself look silly when ringing haha?

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Engaged scale

Can anyone help me midwife said I was engaged and wrote in notes 4/5 but didn’t notice till I left and I’ve tried to google but it’s giving conflicting information

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Line eyes?

Had implantation pinky brown CM and unsure if I see the faintest line here

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Headaches

So I've developed a really bad headache today, unbearable! I hady 34 week midwife appointment on Wednesday and everything was fine. I know they say if you get a sudden severe headache to call immediately but can anything develope in two days? I don't want to take someone's valuable space up by calling for just a ...

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Help please

Would we say this is close to peak? I’ve never had one like this before so thought I would ask

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Food

Did anyone start pregnancy with all healthy foods and drinks. And now in the 3rd trimester eating anything and everything 🙈

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In the dark

I had my 38 week midwife appointment today (I'm 38+5). I would have expected them to check if the baby is engaged at all, or if I'm at all dilating... But nothing. I have an appointment booked for 40+1 in case baby hasn't arrived by then but I just feel like I'm in the dark.

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Has anyone tried a doula in England, UK? Attempting a VBAC for the second -

Okay so I had my first child with an emergency c section in 2023 June, and waiting for my body to completely heal to try for the second. However, I am nervous that health care will push me for a c section again. Has anyone had a doula and how has your experience been?

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Pregnancy notes

Hi, week 4 here… I register with pregnancy notes via the GP earlier this week and it’s making me so anxious no one contacted me yet, is this normal?

T
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GD pregnancy

Less than three months until I give birth to my first I’m so nervous! Did anyone else get diagnosed with gestational diabetes Im feeling bummed about it

V
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Still waiting for date

Hey! So I’m 38 weeks tomorrow and still don’t have my date for C section. They told me it will be from 39 weeks which would be from 28th dec for me! Should I have heard by now. Can’t relax for Christmas, I just want to know when I’m gonna have my baby. Also… has anybody had loose stools and insomnia at this stage of...

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Perineal massage

Hello ! Did any of you tried the perineal massage ? I tried to do it with the Frida Mom wand but it hurts so much!! Any penetration now feels like torture… I am not even sure if it will really help avoiding tearing or not… I am 31 weeks pregnant but at risk to give birth before that is why I tried to start these m...

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Positive test

Mommies who conceived this cycle what did you do differently that you believe helped you concieve?

R
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When does third trimester start?

I keep seeing different answers

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Due date change.

If your doc changed your due date to 9 days more. Would you follow the first one given that was from your last period. Or would you go with the new one that was made because of babies size at anatomy scan? If i go by the first due date I’m 35 weeks today. Makes me feel better and closer to being done. If I go by ...

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Prenatal massage in HOU

Hi everyone! Any suggestions for a great prenatal massage in Houston?! I need to woo-sah at the spa 🧖🏽‍♀️lol

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Hcg question

Hi! So at 5 weeks 3 days mg hcg was 10786 then at 5 weeks 5 days 18996. Not quite doubling but the nurse wasn’t concerned. Anyone else’s number rising but not doubling? I’ve read they slow after they get higher

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