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Am I the asshole?

So me 23F and my baby dad 33m have a 9 month old son together. He also has 2 other children from 2 different mothers. For context he doesn’t see these 2 children. Me and him split due to a lot of reasons like DV, cheating, lying, controlling behaviour etc. We have been split for around 5-6 months now, I returned t...

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Help 😭

I can’t tell anymore my partner just tells me it’s line eyes and I don’t even trust my eyes anymore unless there’s a bright pink line

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Paternity leave

My partner can only take two weeks unpaid maternity leave. I wondered how everyone navigated this? It’s extra money strain but I want him home for those first two weeks 😭

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in need of support 😢

I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant and we got married just 21 days ago. . My husband hasn’t ever had a high libido but it did come back for a long time, fast forward to since I’ve been pregnant and about 3wks prior to finding out. We haven’t had any physical contact sexually for all this time now and he said it’s him...

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Birthday & Xmas

Is this enough for my daughters first birthday and Christmas ( her birthdays 24th December) nearly all is second hand so I just wanted to feel like I made up for that by getting her a lot? And will this last till shes 2 as she doesn’t have a birthday between the year I don’t want to have to buy her toys again I’m ho...

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is it just me?

is it just me or is it so lonely being a new mum. i’ve lost all my friends, i spend 99% of my time at home alone. my social anxiety is getting worse because i only have myself as company. i’m petrified to go to a mum group, it’s so bad i spend half my morning throwing up and i don’t even go. i’m so lonely 😭…

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Is being a sexual predator a requirement for all the people Trump is naming to positions for his new administration?

The list goes on and on 😬 Birds of a feather and all I suppose

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Has anyone still not bought anything at all!?

😭 please tell me I’m not the only one

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Christmas 🎄

What is everyone getting their babies for Christmas this year? My bubs will only be 6 weeks old but still would love to get her something! Just unsure what 😆 she has everything she needs for now, all the family keep asking me what to buy her, and at this point it's money in her bank 🤪

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Black Friday sales

Hiya everyone, really random question! Has anyone found anywhere that’s doing really good sales for Black Friday? I am starting to buy things and feel like now is a good time but can’t find anything that’s super different than normal prices!

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Boyfriend OK’ed me meeting/hookups/dating girls

We’ve talked about this before, but I didn’t think he was serious. We talked today and he knows how attracted I am to girls. To the point he even was like “well, yeah you’re gay right?” He only asks to be involved a little, at least to watch me enjoying myself with a woman. He doesn’t really have a high sex drive an...

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Friend

Hello, I am hoping to find a friend where we can talk anything and everything, I am dealing with PPD and my boyfriend works almost everyday all day, I have no friends. I’m really lonely.

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Idk why I do this to myself everytime but I let in everytime my bd says he wants to have sex with me the kicker is tho yall listen

He doesn't mind telling me I'm not his gf and he's not my bf and also doesn't mind asking me for favors but he'll throw in my FACE anytime he feels like it that I'm not his gf and to stop acting like it? but he'll ask me for...... make this make sense he threw it in my face again , I told him don't ask me for nothin...

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Christmas Coming up:)

Goodmorningggg:)), I got Christmas presents for my son, however i'm stuck on what to get for his stocking. He doesn't eat much candy, but the stuff he does i do plan on getting. What small toys/little things are you putting in your stocking for your almost 2 year old?

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Morning after pill

Had sex with my boyfriend Tuesday night u protected so yesterday took the morning after pill. Never took one in my life so abit anxious on how it works. I took it 12 hours after sex. Just working out if it's the right time iv took it. My first day of period was 11th November and finished last Friday. Will this morni...

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Looking for mummy friends

I’m in laindon Essex and I’m looking for mummy friends to go to soft play, shopping trips. Mums who don’t mind a laid back stop start kinda play date lol. My little bit is 8months next week 😀🥰

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Struggling leaving baby for work

Hey y’all, I’m having a really hard time when I have to drop my baby off to go to work. And I’m missing her all day, sometimes I can barely concentrate. Just posting because I know you guys will understand.

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Christmas

What are you getting your little ones for Christmas? I was thinking of getting her a Tonie box, just seeing what everyone else was getting!

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Christmas gifts

how do you figure out what to get your kids for Christmas when everything you get them is pretty much thrown all over the house or broken?

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Christmas presents thread 🎄🎅🏻

Let’s share present ideas which we would recommend. Big presents and small stocking ideas! Mine is in the comments ☺️

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