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Accrued holiday pay after maternity

So I left my job after maternity leave and apparently we get holiday pay during maternity. I haven’t taken any for 2025, I used to work 40 hours a week and get 28 days holiday (including bank holidays). I got paid around £11.00 an hour I don’t really know how much to expect? I’ve asked my old work but they aren’...

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How often does intimacy happen in your household?

Since having our little girl my bf has been nonstop bugging me about being intimate with him. He doesn't push but he's constantly saying things like "guess no love making tonight since you're always tired" and it's like yes I am!! I have another daughter who is 9 so I'm getting up as early as 630/715 on certain days...

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Intimacy

I just found out im pregnant again with our 3rd child so it is a lot to process and take in but my partner is now having arguments with me about not being intimate with him in the bedroom I have explained what is on my mind but it’s clearly not good enough I feel a little bit pressured to have intercouse with him ju...

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Could you get over your ex sleeping with someone while you broke up?

We broke up and he slept with someone during that time. We never agreed that it was a break or anything like that so I know he was within his right to do so. We have decided to give things a go and he wanted to come clean about everything that happened while we weren’t together and he has admitted to sleeping with a...

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Childcare

Just want someone to clarify for me. I’m ending my maternity in 29th September, but then taking my annual leave until November. That means I’m entitled to the 30 hrs from 1st September. But I won’t be putting LG in nursery until November, will I still get the 30 hrs or will I have to wait until new term in jan?

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What’s the income disparity between you and your partner?

If your partner is no longer working, use the income they would be realistically earning if they were currently working

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Is he the one?

Is your current spouse your ideal man physically? Is he what u have always imagined yourself with? If not,what do u find about him sexy?

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Looking for a bestfriend 👯‍♀️

Hey mamas! I’m Alyssa I’m 22 years old, I currently live in Maryland & I’m a FTM. I’m really shy so it’s hard for me to make friends usually, I haven’t had a bestfriend in a really long time & would love to get to know some new people that could help me navigate this new journey of becoming a mother. 🥰 I’m open to…

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🦋🦋

hi! anyone up to be friends? 🥲💖 I want someone that i can talk to, annoy with tiktoks, vent to, laugh with, & just be best friends! message me or add my snap! 💖

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Alone in Delivery Room

Looks like I will be delivering my baby alone. Anyone else out there go through this? Would appreciate some tips and encouragement!

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If a woman refers to herself as wife , but she is not married, and vice versa…

We know it's nobody’s business karren 😅.

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Credit card

Question. I have a big bill coming up $900+ for my car insurance six month premium. I have the money saved for it. Unfortunately I also have a few maxed credit cards. I’m not sure if it makes a difference at all, but should I just pay it from the account I have money saved in? Or would it look better if I paid $900+...

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Looking for friends 🫶🏻

Hey everyone! I’m on the journey to find some friends, I never leave my house unless it’s to take my daughter (8yo) to school or go to appointments. On top of that my phone is silent most of the time except for when my friend messages me (I think I’d be insane without her!) About me - I had my daughter, Alice, in ...

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Losing steam

I’ve been applying for months now and while I’ve had a few interviews nothing comes through. I’m supposed to hear back about a fellowship in a few weeks and if I don’t get this idk what to do next 😩 My unemployment is done and I’m feeling the pressure and don’t want to run through my savings! Despite the “right”…

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Sleep orgasm

I’m so embarrassed to write this but I’m worried that it’s going to affect pregnancy. I am 5 weeks pregnant after 5 day frozen embryo transfer and I woke up in the night after having a sleep orgasm. After it finished I had cramping so worried it’s affected the implantation. This has never happened before and I h...

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If your significant other asks what you want for your birthday and you say nothing are you expecting…

* something * doesn’t have to be materialistic. It can also be something small or large or an experience.

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Hi Ladies, please help me decide what to do

My son is turning two and we decided to throw him a little party at an indoor trampoline park. My good friend does balloons but hasn’t officially opened a business yet. I told her I would like to support her and she is super excited to help me set up balloons for my son’s bday. Upon asking what the price would be, s...

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Have you ever posted “rage bait” on this page?

It seems like there are some people that just post things to get other people fired up and mad. I’m genuinely curious if people are just bored and trying to start something.

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ok so quick story time and question

ok so my baby is 7 months old and doesn’t really take formula since he is exclusively breastfed and he doesn’t always take a bottle whether it breast milk or formula even though i gave him bottles since birth . but anyways my bd and I always argue about me sending the baby with his mom to watch him even for somethin...

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Therapist?

Are any mamas in here in need of a therapist?

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