Was I wrong to say anything?

Absolutely always be open & honest with your partner 💯 their not going to know something bothers US if we don't tell them so how they take what you tell them is definitely on them but having a conversation is necessary 💓

I know it's hard in the moment because you were feeling jilted but I don't think you were wrong for speaking up about being left unsatisfied especially twice, but your tone was a little harsh in my humble opinion as a woman who is dealing with working on her tone because it feeds into my marital communication issues. Sex is already difficult to talk about and men never think about it the same way we do. There are many times I haven't finished but still enjoyed the connection with my spouse. What made you upset about not finishing in that experience? I don't think his joke was purposefully self satisfied.

Always speak up my darling but we always have to strive to be mindful with our tongues especially as women (we can be putbulls).

I’ve learned it’s not what you say it’s how you say it. This has been. A consistent theme throughout my pregnancy and has left me sexually unfulfilled to say the least. I would make it a point to bring it up, I’ve said things like ite frustrating because it’s not like you can’t give me an orgasm you’re just not … and that’s why I’m hurt or bothered I’m happy to take care of your needs but it would mean so much to me if my needs were taken care of too, sprinkle in the my hormones are raging and all I want it you and blah blah , as long as he doesn’t feel under attack I think/hope things will go your way

I know was supper bitchy about it, it's just life has been so hectic and it's so few and far between. I was already sexually frustrated it just added to it. I kinda felt like he did even try

Didn't*

I understand mama! It's a primal reaction plus it's sounds like life has been giving it to you both. You just wanted to have this one thing and I can only imagine the level of frustration of not getting it twice and then having him make a joke about it. I don't think he meant it that way. Men are just stupidly goofy after sex. We all know this. Think about it like this you gave him some of the best Karma had him smiling! Your feelings are valid but don't let it cause a rift over something that is easily fixed by a closet quickie or making him make it up to you randomly one day. And. YOU need to be his only focus!!

Girl I chewed my poor boyfriend out because I didn’t have an orgasm and he had like 5 it’s okay it’s our hormones. We just have to remember they love us and they’re a little clueless sometimes

I'm gonna make it up to him this evening with his favourite dinner and an apology for how I said it, I know I was been a moody bitch lol

Yeah that's more like it!!! Kill him with Kindness and sexual frustration tonight lol!