Am I weird?

So I have 2 kids at home, one is almost 3 and the other is 2 months old, and my husband is always too tired to have sex right before bed so we usually have to do it in the morning or during the day if he’s home or like in between him getting home from work and bed some time. We hadn’t had sex in like a week or two when we finally got a chance to. I had expressed the entire week I was horny and sexually frustrated and needed sex so by the time we got to do it, it felt great but like it wasn’t enough to fully satisfy me and I still feel very sexually frustrated. Am I weird for it not being enough? Should I say something to my husband? I always feel weird initiating anything cause I’m scared of getting turned down lol

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Definitely not weird at all. Maybe try pleasing yourself even if it’s after you two have sex

No you’re not weird I think you should try to find a small amount of time for quickies or something extra. I’m sure he would rather you initiate than go without. Me and my husband don’t have sex often either for the same reason, tired and kids and dogs and life he works 6 12s like every week. But we’ve kinda come to a silent agreement that if one initiates we just go for it. I have to be reallllly far gone to say no.

It's normal to feel like that in my opinion

Definitely normal! Initiate, but also ask when you’re in a good headspace if he isn’t interested Ava says no or have a backup plan like a toy or masturbation.

Buy a Rose. You won't be frustrated anymore. 🤣

@Emily I have one but idk I always preferred my bullet lol

@Cassie I always feel weird initiating cause I’ve never felt sexy enough I guess and I have self esteem issues

@Bryar I’ve tried pleasing myself but sometimes it pisses me off cause I just want the real thing lol

@Taylor you know, I get that. That sucks tho because it really limits us from having the full experience, I think. I’ve always been able to be myself and act sexy my whole life. The only person I don’t feel comfortable totally showing my true sexy to is my husband. I feel like he’s going to look at me crazy or think I’m being weird. Is that how you feel? Would you feel more comfortable talking to him about it over text or something? I know when I don’t have to look someone in the face I can say a lot more lol.

@Cassie oh yea I can text stuff all day long but face to face I clam up lol and I’m beyond obsessed with my husband sexually so I want to be able to face to face but I’m also scared he’s gonna think I’m being weird or something cause I feel like idk how to be sexy in person

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