Witch hazel tucks pads and Preparation H ointment several times a day. Mine would itch sometimes so I would use the butt paste that is for diaper rash
Cold baby wipes and sudo cream helped me. I went into C section with them and tbh I haven't given them a second thought until now (13 weeks later)
Warm bath helped me and taking laxatives to make the stool passing a lot easier and less painful! Baggy clothes and you can get donuts pillows to help with seating on the sofa extra xx
Preparation H helped me in my third trimester!