Old friends talk

Hey, yall . So, me and this girl had 6 classes back in 2013/14. After school, we would text here and there, but nothing consistent. We ended up not talking to each other anymore. Ran in to her in 2019, and we became hang out budies. She was fun to be around. We started working out together and sometimes did dinner. At this point, she was becoming my sister. Two months within us reconnected. I ended up pregnant with my fist, and she was the first one I told. We were still hanging out here and there. After I had my son, we hung out a few times. There was an incident when we went to the beach, and I thought I had left my brand new Prada glasses in her car. I told her about it, and she said she didn't see it. I was kind of frustrated but found it later. I called her to apologize. She said it was okay. I think she found a new boo around the time i had my baby. I slowly felt like she wasn't talking me me like we used to. I really like this girl. I would check in her here and there, but I felt like I was doing more to reach out or hang out with her. Out of nowhere, we stopped talking. Now, idk if it's because I gave my sis in-law to be my son godmother when she was sort of my closest friend at the time. We haven't talked since 2021. Last year, she commented on my post and said she hoped all was well. Truth is, I make friends for life, and when the relationship ends with no explanation like that, I don't like it. I genuinely consider her as a good friend. I was reading our old messages, and I felt like I missed her. I'm also the type to stay off once I get a bad vibe. I don't really have friends like I'd say let's go have dinner or let's go workout maybe that is why I miss ber friendship. What would you do if you were me? By the way I Hage a whole new baby two years ago.
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When you start feeling like a relationship is forced, it’s best to take a step back and observe . If she misses you like you missed her then she should have also reached out. I think she’s preoccupied with other things and as you said she got into a relationship so maybe. Don’t overthink it. You could try to start a conversation with her and see if you two can reconnect again but don’t force it if she’s not up to it.

I could've written a lot of this...

@Longjohn lol sorry for reading all my complaints amd bad grammar lol. I thought about it. I'll give it a thought. Thank you

@Esther it sucks.

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