Babydaddy issues

How would you feel if your man does not kiss you anymore once they get home and before going to bed and hasn’t kissed you at all in all day? Then you notice they’ve changed after baby is here. I walked in when he was in the bathroom and man was watching “porn”. Most women say that is considered cheating. For me it’s just disrespectful because I don’t sit there and watch other men and if I did he would be mad. Then I started crying. I’m postpartum ofc I am going to have all these emotions. I called him out on the disrespect and then he called me out saying it’s disrespectful I can’t keep up the house and pick up, cook everyday, and clean. But my baby was literally crying today every hour. I still managed to make dinner today. Didn’t let me do anything. But he isn’t the one that gets barely any sleep, nor watches the baby. I’m just upset and hurt. Advice, how would you feel? Anyone wants to chat. He may be the reason I go into postpartum depression.

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I would be giving an ultimatum if he does nothing then why can he judge anything you do. I would just start liking to save up and leave I’ve seen too many people in these situations married or not married. Like he’s trying to make it seem like you are the problem when actually you are doing the best you can with a new baby. If you want it to work then he needs to start working with you to make it work

I can't even maintain my house when my baby doesn't cry all day. I would probably feel the same way you do. That isn't fair of him to put so much pressure and high expectations on you. Having a newborn is hard work in itself!! As for the kissing part, I don't mind that as much. My husband and I hardly kiss, but he does show affection in other ways. If it's something you both used to do a lot, I would be concerned. For example, if it's one of either of your top love languages.

@Rebecca exactly!! Literally my point, making me the problem when it’s actually him and I’m taking care of a newborn! Makes me want to leave honestly.

@Mei I know it’s definitely not fair :(. It’s literally a full time job taking care of a newborn. Not getting affection either way and that’s why I’m concerned on why not? Yes, we’re Hispanic so we are used to the kissing when he comes home from work and before he leaves somewhere and before bed she morning kiss too. It’s just been changes from him.

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