Oh mannn. I feel bad.

I’m probably going to get a shit load of hate comments and stuff. And I totally understand. But anyways. I want to express my thought for a second. I truly feel HORRIBLE for you ladies who are in shittt relationships. But everytime I’m looking on this app it’s all about everyone’s S/O who is shitty. And I get it. We are all here for support and advice and stuff. But honestly is like almost every status that I see on here. Where are all the women who can talk about how lovely their S/O is. I mean I know there’s nothing to say if you’re in a great relationship: but it’ll be nice to see a status about what a wonderful thing their S/O done for them or whatever. I wish there were more positivity on this app. Because not all men suck. Because I love mine to death! lol Like I said I’m probably going to get a lot of hate and rude comments. But just like everyone else. I’m allowed to express my thoughts.
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Mine has been amazing. I'm stick in hospital with baby after birth, he's here all day, does everything because I have him at night. Takes our clothes. Washes them, brings food, buys everything we need and brings it up. Absolutely loves our son. Advovates for us with everything and has all the wau through. Can't fault him on anything. ❤️

@Elizabeth that’s soo lovely! 💕

There's also a lot of single moms on here like me who just don't say anything lol but I totally agree it's sad how posts on here are about shit men. I was in an extremely abusive relationship with my baby daddy and I ended it and I'm single and so damn happy so no complaints here. Hate to see all the women suffering and letting their kids suffer too. So tragic.

@Cecilia-Jean what is it called so I can join? I just want some positivity on my feed 😭

It may seem like that's all you see but this is a place for women to air their complaints without judgement and with hopefully getting some encouragement or advice. You have to remember that as women were basically told to shut up and deal with it because they're men and can't express themselves as much as us. It's hard being in a relationship where your partner only really cares about themselves and is just using you for occasional companionship or as a maid. When you're in a relationship with someone it's supposed to be a partnership and everything should be equal... But that's very far from the truth still for most women.

@Samantha and I wrote “we are all here for support and advice” I’m not saying women can’t express themselves. All I’m saying is I wish I saw more positive things. That’s all. I’m not judging. I was in a mentally abusive relationship in the past. And another physically abusive. So I know all about it. But all I was just trying to express was. I wish there were more positive things on this app. Because not all men are shit.

Nothing wrong with wanting to see positivity, so be the change you want to see. Start posting positive things and people will follow. Do afford grace to the women posting on this app, they may not have any other place or person to share their grievances with. There are amazing men out there and they must be celebrated. There are also shit men that should be condemned for their actions and this is the perfect place to do so. Blessings to you and yours. Follow up with a post on some positive stuff celebrating deserving men and the women who deserve celebration for picking up the slack when their men fail. Happy Saturday 😊

I have been married 30 years and my spouse is awesome•sauce • . . . so I guess I really don’t comment 🔛 🥜 app often but marriage is pretty fun to me and serve as a sturdy foundation for our adult kiddos👁️‍🗨️

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