Hey! I have the exact same with my parents unfortunately - no matter how much I point it out, it always turns into my fault. I’ve finally accepted they will never change but it doesn’t stop the frustration and upset. 4 years in currently and feeling like my ‘village’ doesn’t exist x
I’ll happily adopt you! 😘 but on a serious note you ever need to speak to someone or hang out Message me x
I’m going through the same with my mum 😔 she’s incredibly toxic and despite trying to make her see where she’s going wrong, she doesn’t want to know. It’s not her fault. I know it’s really hard that she’s not around, but the way I look at it, I’m protecting my son from picking up on that toxic energy and I think that’s the most important thing. It’s tough when you want someone to behave the way they should do but they don’t, and you have my sympathy ❤️ I hope that one day they come through for you and be who you need them to be 🙂