Sleeping with baby daddy

I feel like there should be a discussion beforehand when me and my baby daddy spilt up we slept with each other twice while apart we are now back together however in that moment it done nothing but bad as I was not over him and it felt like he didn’t want me but still wanted to sleep with me

So how did you end up back together if you slept together but not over him? Did you cut all contact (besides co parenting) and then it naturally developed into a relationship again?

I do 😅 mind you we were together for 8 years prior to me falling pregnant, we split when i was 18 weeks due to his mental health and reckless behaviour but we constantly slept together throughout and ended up back together when our daughter was 7 months old and that was last October, i think it all depends on you guys as people - be honest with each other though like make sure you talk about where you are both at mentally and what you both want because if he has no intentions of getting back with you it will only hurt you in the long run hun so would probably be best not to do it. i hope you do get the outcome you want though, just protect yourself 🥰 feel free to message me too i went through a WHOLE LOT with him but we came out the other end and im so grateful xx

I’m currently still pregnant we had no contact at all after a while by his choice until he messaged me one night trying to start a casual conversation which I didn’t really participate into he then asked me for a coffee and wanted to try again we’ve been together for 2 months now My personal advice is if you wanna give it another go talk to him about it sex can make things very messy especially if you want a different kind outcome to come out of it

@Emma is your relationship different than it was before since breaking up? In a better way I mean?

When we slept together he strictly wanted it to be just sex which messes with your head so much like he would come round and end up staying the night but then would hear nothing from him for days afterwards

While baby dad and I were together it was very toxic. When we broke up we decided after a while to be just sex. But he would act as if we were in a relationship in person. But then go cold and distance over messages. Got to a point where I hated it and ended it