I HATE MY BD

I’ve been there. Just get things together for you and baby and go. That’s what I had to do

Sheesh you sound like me like 5 minutes ago lol 😂 I have no idea where mine is as he has chosen to cut me off and not be apart of our lives because it isn’t the way he wants things to go. I wish I would have known he would be this way but it is what it is now. I am healing day by day but when I go through even 1 struggle I literally say “I’ll never forgive him for leaving us like this”….

@Kay we’re not even together anymore but like i resent this man so so so much I feel STUPID AF for ever giving him my energy. Now I’m a bm for this piece of shittt!! It honestly makes me feel like shit 😩 I’m trying to move forward being pregnant etc but I’m left with alllllllllll the shit he’s put me through as a reminder every fucking day

I just want to scream at the top of my lungs at him and get this feeling in my chest out and leave it with him.

@Ezama girl!

@Ezama I will NEVER EVER forgive him. Ever. I swear to god if I could erase a person from my life. He would be first.

@Kristyna im not gonna lie! That writing tip is a great tip! Ive done it before

All that hatred is energy. Please let go of that energy it’s no good for you and baby. Forget him. You and baby are going to live such a prosperous life. Acknowledge your feelings and heal.i know it’s difficult right now but everything’s going to be just fine. Be patient and kind to yourself. One day you’re going to wake up and say oh wtf was that feeling cause you’ll be so far past it. Sending you lots of love and positivity 💕🙏

I feel you, mine hasn’t been to a single appointment. Is going on a “lads holiday” weeks before I’m due, hasn’t bought a thing the list goes on. Don’t give him the satisfaction of showing him how he makes you feel he doesn’t even deserve that. Trust me the silence will hurt them more in the long run! I know it’s hard but focus on you and baby from now and don’t let him affect you anymore than he has you deserve better. Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk too

I AM SO SORRY 😭😭😭😭 I completely get what you're feeling from that short description because it is the exact same thing I am going through 😭 I'm sorry.. it'll get easier especially if you've already made the decision to accept and let go. That's what I have had to do. Don't hold onto that hate. It is what it is and now your baby is the only thing that matters including you, holding onto that hate is not good for you or her. Prayers for you 🩷🙏🏻🩷

Girl I’m sorry. I could’ve wrote this a few weeks ago. We got back on speaking terms and now all the rage is back. He’s a such a bum and a loser. Ugh. Best advice I have is get cordial and leave it at that. Remember these feelings and what you’re going through. Let it go, but hold on to the lesson.

Thank you everyone for the messages. It’s definitely hard and I cry ALOT but I am really really trying to move forward and be positive for my babys sake. But I’ll admit I’m struggling emotionally. I’m so hurt it’s clouding a lot of things and I’m so angry at myself too. But I’m grateful and I appreciate everyone’s advice ♥️

Feel free to message me. I hate my bed too. Let’s be friends lol