I understand the guilt, im 22 weeks and fell over a kerb with my 6 year old luckily I had my hands out and didn't fall on my belly but the guilt I feel and the guilt I feel for my son because he got so scared and worried about baby sister it's awful but it isn't our fault and accidents happen unfortunately x
When my son was 2 and a half I fell up the stairs holding him and I had to literally push myself forward and slam him down otherwise we would have gone backwards, he needed a wee and I had taken his potty up so I picked him up and ran, I really badly hurt myself ( this was in 2020 and i still am getting treatments for my injury’s) but honestly I didn’t realise I gave him really bad carpet burn up his back UNTIL THE NEXT DAY. To this day I feel so horrible I didn’t realise sooner.
My LG was 6 weeks old and I had left her in her car chair in the hallway but had undone it while i put the shopping away. The cat tripped me up and I grabbed the car chair to move LG out the way but it tipped and she fell out and on the floor. That feeling in your stomach is bad but you just had to remind yourself everyone's ok and these things happen.
Thank you everyone I stuffer really bad with my knee popping and that’s what happened I’m going to call the doctors Monday see if they can sort my knee out it’s a joke I fall all the time and getting unsafe I’m just glad I landed on my bum with my baby infront of me so I could protect him my back is killing but my baby’s is safe thank you for all the comments sorry to hear stuffs happened to you too but nice to know it’s not just me and glad u understand the mum guilt ❤️
As long as you and your babies are okay, I promise there isn’t anything to worry about, don’t let the guilty feeling override xxx