Social anxiety

Trying to make friends and having social anxiety is the absolute worst. Everyone I’ve met has been extremely nice but I can’t get past the first stages. We talk about a little bit but I always overthink how the conversation is going or it takes me such a long time to respond back to make sure I sound okay😭 ugh does anyone else feel themselves having this problem or just me lol

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Yes, it use to be bad for me but I got out of that once I stopped wfh. I’ve been working on site for a hospital for a yr and have find that I’ve become more outspoken then I’ve ever been. Especially with have a child. I’d say if anyone be really want to be your friend they would understand after you speak about who you are and what triggers the anxiety and if they are willing time will not amount to real friendship. I lost both bffs 4yrs ago within 6 mos and it kinda still affects me even tonight I told my bf and even cried about it a little bcs friends I already have don’t go the extra mile to come see me.

@Brittany I have none of my long term friendships either and it really does suck so I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you. Your real friends don’t give up on you🫶🏻 i don’t use social media anymore so I use this app to try and open up more for sure I just hate that my mind constantly makes me over analyze everything I say. I have bad anxiety over all but as a child I was always the loudest and most talkative person in the room especially after high school. I’m not sure what happened lol I’m about to be 24 and my bf has plenty of friends and they are all great but it would be fine to have some of my own

I can agree me and my bf have the same discussion about it. I’d say they will come around if you want we can be friends too. Whenever you want to reach out I’m here.

@Brittany I’m down! I will send you a message right now:)

I’m happy to chat me and my friend struggle too so completely understand

I’m happy to chat 💬

I often do this too😭 I’m not sure if we live in the same area but I’m open to chatting! Send me a message

This is me 100%. I don’t have any friends at all tbh, it’s kinda sad lol. But I also have autism so that’s the way it comes out for me 😬 I’m sure any genuinely nice person would understand though! If you wanna talk, send me a message ☺️

@Sophie I just sent you a message ❤️

@Kelsey it’s the worst!! But I just sent you a message❤️😊

@Katelyn im sure we would get along great 😊 I sent you a message

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