hey girl hey 👋🏾

If you are able to do both because why should he get away with assaulting you and possibly doing it to someone else

@Bear true but the case is still on going not even sure if the DA will pick it up for court but I did speak up and speak my truth

Don’t drop your case that’s what he wants. For you to go down without a fight and him get away with it. He’s Making it harder for you on purpose trying to get under your sink when this is the consequences of his actions. Go no contact with him keep your case and file the restraining order. You can have peace of mind knowing that you & your baby get justice. Don’t let no one gas light you into giving up protect your peace and get justice you don’t deserve to be silenced

Sometimes that all you need to do but don’t drop it you deserve justice

@Lazara thank you and he doesn’t know about the open SA case because they won’t charge him unless the DA proceeds and takes it to court. He’s only aware of the child support and request for dna case

So he’s trying to bully you into dropping everything so he doesn’t get any consequences. Keep your case if it lifts off grate and if it doesn’t you at least tried. If you go to court for child support he can’t deny the DNA test. Go low contact as you proceed and be at peace knowing you will get justice no matter if it’s in the form of child support or anything else. Do not listen to him try and tear you down only contract him when you need to. And if there’s anything to keep as proof screenshot it

@Lazara yes correct, and I did share the screenshot with the detectives and he even had the nerve to say I raped him. And stole his sperm

@Lazara but I know this will be a long journey either way

Wow. This made me replay the conception of my middle daughter 7 years ago. Still feels like yesterday 😪 😕 😞 it is a long lonely terribly dark road. But I hope you are able to one day find peace. As you continue to fight for justice.

Take him for all he has. He deserves all that’s coming to him. Make sure to get child support too.

@Samantha how did you manage and what was your outcome if you don’t mine me asking

I would definitely go through with the charges, it’s not worth it to risk something happening if you don’t. But I am so sorry this happened to you and if you ever need to talk to someone who’s been through rape too, feel free to message me. You are not alone, remember that

honestly screw these men idk it’s just to have gotten triggered from what feels like similar experiences just do it…fight like you ain’t never fought before.. show him he wasn’t always the one in control taking everything from you even your dignity it’s clear you want something else and even the stock home syndrome it’s all a bigger game to them just when you’ll give up so don’t. fight and keep fighting for your peace AND your justice these men will never learn not a single thing unless you try them to the same levels they even dared to try you, i know it feels scary and it’s hurts but do it..