Affection/Attention!!😐

Wtf? Who says no to cuddling? 🤪

I find it concerning how he talks to you when you get upset like he doesn't try to comfort you knowing he's the cause? Sorry but to me that's a red flag right there. Communication is an important factor like explain how it hurts your feelings but if he won't even talk about why he won't give you any affection I would get to the point where I wouldn't even bother asking if this is a frequent thing. Physical touch not just sexual but just normal cuddling in bed before going to sleep is a big comfort thing for me so I know that if I'm just going to get rejected anyway like why would I bother and just save myself the heartache. But my man has never turned out any offer of a cuddle before bed and he'd certainly soon know if I suddenly stopped asking.

I mean I understand saying no, I turn down cuddles sometimes too.. but to act like that afterwards is just wrong, he shouldn't talk to you like that. He's ur husband, not just some guy at the store.

Some men aren't into cuddling. My husband will do it to humour me basically. The red flag is "so now you're going to cry" tbh. That's such a heartless, arsehole thing to say.

My partner isn’t a hugger, he gets super awkward and sometimes doesn’t want to be touched too much. But like everyone else said the commentary is where the issue is