Blending memories

Hello! A couple of days ago, my husband was wearing different boxers that he never wore before with me, so he started to say: do you remember this boxers? And I was so confused and I said: no, I don’t! And he said: yes! Remember I was wearing it the first time we were together? I bought this one for that occasion! And I was extra confused because of course he was not wearing it. So he started to remember more things and saying: remember that we talked about underwear? And I was confused again and denying what he was saying. So at some point he started to remember better and he told me that he wore it for another girl he dated like for a month three years before me, they had sex just once. That made me feel bad, sad. Like how can you confuse that moment?. I need your help, what would you feel? Think?

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My question is why does he still have them like them was from your last ex girlfriend you should have been through them out

pull out some underwear of yours and say you remember these? oh wait sorry i wore them for another guy before you, when he’s salty about it tell him to be more mindful next time and use his brain

Tbh it's easily done to blend memories, yes I'd be sad about it but I wouldn't cause too much of a scene over it! And he may have kept them as he said he thought that memory was with you not someone else x

I wouldn’t think too deep into it at all, if anything it’s nice he thought it was you as that other person must have been far from his thoughts.

The other day I was going on and on to my husband about these sweet emails he sent me when we first started dating and he finally was like that wasn’t me. Turns out I was thinking of emails my ex sent! It happens, nobody has a perfect memory. I’d say don’t sweat it.

I'd disregard it as well, coming from someone with not so good memories. He brought it up to be romantic, and I'm sure he's embarrassed & feels bad... but make sure he makes it up to you!

He should buy some fancy underwear to celebrate you! A matching set so he never forgets again. He should schedule you a fancy night out, complete with its very own souvenir underwear. Planning should begin immediately. And throw out the old pair! After going through all that, I bet he still wore them that day, I mean, come on man, that's just ick! Let him know how he can make this right.

Regardless of the memory… That is some stanky OLD underwear! At least 3 years old plus however long you guys have been together! Boys are gross.

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