Is something wrong with me

I'm the same. I cannot explain why, I have no idea what's caused it either

And I used to be very sexual, as in every single day I'd be having sex or giving him a blow job etc then out of nowhere about 6 months ago it just stopped and I lost interest. I've been made to feel like I have something wrong with me. So I'm relieved to see it's not only me who has switched like this 😅

Am the same my partner said he's fed up getting rejected all the time so am on a sex ban and he wont try anymore lol i said to hin doesnt bother me am too drained to have sex

No, nothing is wrong with you. You could be on the ace spectrum. OR there could be a deeper intimacy issue in your relationship? Women’s bodies have a peculiar way of “shutting off” when they no longer feel safe around a person. Idk if it’s science or spiritual but it’s a thing. Either way I think it’s worth keeping open communication about it with one another to either get to the root of it, determine if it’s a dealbreaker, or just to uphold certain boundaries. ♥️

I also think there’s a collective spiritual thing happening with women that our Spirits are like “lowkey maybe right now is not the best time to be risking bringing children into this world just hold on a minute” 😅 Idk I just see a lot of women reclaiming autonomy over their bodies lately, even if they’re in a relationship, married.

@Kirsty THIS IS ME. I ISED TO BE SO INTO IT and he’s a wonderful wonderful man I just can’t even bring myself to be aroused like ever

@Makenzie we communicate very well. We have been together over a year and had one major fight. We love each other very much and I could not possibly imagine him ever hurting me. What is the ACE?

@incognito it's a weird feeling isn't it. He asks me what's wrong but I just can't explain because I genuinely don't know. I just have zero interest. Do you know if anything triggered it or was it just random? Because for me I can't put my finger on what caused it x

@Kirsty it was just random. Nothing happened. Just one day I wasn’t feeling sexual and then it literally never came back. I feel bad when I see him love me so so much and I know his love language is being intimate.

This is me too. At this point I could happily never have sex again.

I'd mention it to a doctor or look up causes for low libido in women and see if there's anything I can address. (Like managing stress better or fixing a hormonal imbalance)

Me too. Any desire for anything sexual is completely gone for me after having a baby. The thought of it feels gross and repulsive and I think being horny is a low IQ brain-rot barbaric trait now

It means asexual. And it’s a spectrum so there’s no one way to be it. Some people have an aversion to sex, some people just don’t get aroused but can still be intimate with their partners. Others don’t like anything romantic, like saying “I love you”. There’s a lot of variation but I’d consider researching or maybe talking to a counselor that specializes in sexuality spectrums! Best of luck ♥️ I can totally relate, especially ever since I had my child