Pregnancy depression?

Is it possible to have depression while pregnant? My due date is November 27 and these past few weeks have felt so numb and tired…..I just feel so depressed it’s unreal…..like wanting to feel happy but I don’t. I have bipolar type 1 and borderline personality disorder and a few other things. 2 family deaths, 2 back to back hurricanes hitting us and then moving homes hasn’t been easy. We moved Sunday and being 37 weeks pregnant and feeling so depressed is hard like I want to be happy but like I feel so bad. My baby is breech so we have to do a c section so it’s been really hard for this being my first pregnancy. Literally the hospital took over a week to finally call me to schedule a pre admission appointment for the 18th…..now at my ultrasound last week he’s 7 pounds they say but that could be off by a pound lighter or heavier. My back is non stop pain, I can barely walk because I have baker cysts behind both knees now that are killer….and my husband? He wants to drag me through Home Depot to look at Christmas decorations like seriously man logic is unreal…..like there is literally boxes everywhere, I haven’t been able to nest at all or set up anything, no birth plan, we have absolutely nothing ready and he’s worried about getting the lawn mower and Christmas decorations. While I keep telling him I’m not ok and that I feel depressed he just doesn’t understand……idk what to do anymore
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Yes, it’s possible, but hormones can bring a lot of emotions that might be mistaken for depression symptoms. I thought I was depressed. I went months without experiencing happiness. I felt empty, cried here and there, like I was grieving. I wasn’t being myself. I was waking up feeling so sad and empty. After a few months, I started to feel better (I go to therapy every week, so I think it’s important to talk to someone if you think you might have depression). In my case, it was just the hormonal changes. This is also my first pregnancy, and from the beginning, it was really hard to go through this.

Yes it’s called prenatal depression I had it my whole first pregnancy it was horrible it does get better tho hang in there!!

I am also bipolar and have had really bad depression third trimester. It has been helpful having a routine and something “useful” to do every day. Like. I’ll get up at 8, make breakfast, do some work, eat lunch, work, snack, do a little thing for baby (set up one drawer or do one load of laundry or organize one type of thing like toys or diapers), eat dinner, hang out with my husband, have a fun dessert like ice cream or hot chocolate. It sounds like a lot all laid out like that, but honestly i feel worse when i rot doing nothing, so that’s been helpful. I promise you’ll get through this!! The pregnancy hormones will clear soon and you’ll be able to access coping skills that the hormone surge is blocking you from.

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