I’m struggling here

Family ☺️ very blessed to have them help

This is the freaking struggle. Thankfully I have family to help

I have a friend but most of the time they just come with me

Not helpful guys 😂😂😂

@Lai ugh it’s so hard for me to trust anyone let alone a complete stranger 😂😂 I couldn’t imagine 4?!? How old?! Omg. Poor you girl. I struggle with just my two. Like I do feel stupid for even complaining but like I’ve never been apart from them and it’s starting to weigh me down yknow

@Lai aw girl you have twins?! 🥹 I’m gonna have 4 under 4 soon.

@Lai how was that transition? I’m pregnant with twins now and feel like I’m gonna be in for a ride

Try a babysitter service they usually can provide help last minute for anytime you need. But I also bring both with me (5wks and 15mos)

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Before my recent move I had no help, now i'm incredibly blessed to have my in-laws for help

Lol I went to the store with my 3 kids alone it was a lot you get a lot of stares as a parent alone with several😂 yeah I just feel people choose family or trusted nanny of years type I’m sorry girl! No one you know?

There's a place called Playdates here that you can drop them off and pick them up for a few hours. Not sure if you have something similar

It’s so hard isn’t it? I have two appointments I need to go to one being at the hospital and it’s just not appropriate for my baby to come along but at the same time I have no Choice. I have family and even friends around me that would help but I just don’t trust anyone not that I think they would put him in harms way but they don’t know him like me , it’s a. Hard one !

I take them. We don’t live near family, so as hard as it is I make sure my oldest two have a toy to keep them occupied and my youngest goes in the carrier or stays in the car seat. 🥲 For me it pays to be prepared!