Found photos?!

Hey lovelies, I’m not sure how to feel and think… I am 38weeks pregnant and my husband continuesly tells me how much he loves me and our affection for each other hasn’t changed since conception. However, i accidentally found photos and videos of himself jacking off over the past month. Should I be concerned, i understand there are times im not feeling sexually needy but why would he take photos of himself? His parents have been staying with us from overseas for the past 2 months waiting for the birth of our child… there have been times we have argued over boundaries being crossed but I didn’t think it could affect us this way Any advice ?

Show your support

thats weird bc guys dont take photos/videos like that unless they’re sending them to someone…?

I’d go through his phone if I were you. They don’t take videos of themselves unless they’re sending it to someone

red flag -

You should be very concerned! I'm so sorry yes look thru that phone! But if you feel like you wanna just turn a blind eye until you give birth so at least baby won't feel stress that might be best. Cause I can guarantee you it's not good news and if you wanna put a hidden app on his phone so you can see even deleted messages straight to your phone let me know

FYI because I put an app on my guys phone and smh smh it's not free but it's the best $ I've ever spent

Social media and phones ruin relationships

@Priscilla girl I’m just here to ask what the app is? 😭

I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I agree with all the other ladies… it’s def not normal for him to have videos of himself on his phone especially explicit ones unless he’s sending them to someone else. I would go through his phone if you have the chance to see what exactly is going on.

@Constance webwatcher.com but there are others too I've used 2 over the years lol one was for my daughter but this one shows more

Big Red Flags 🚩!!!!!!

I hope its not as suspicious as it seems but I would be going through his phone and his deleted items as well. My fingers are crossed for you that its nothing to worry about though 🤞

No one takes videos like that especially guys unless they are sending them to someone

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌